At Catamorphism's suggestion

[andrewducker]

[Poll #436547]

Following on from the "When should people first have sex?" question, she suggested that we might want to know when people actually did.

And I'm looking for _consensual_ sex. When did you first _choose_ to have sex?

Comments

[andrewducker]

Are you saying there _wasn't_ a point where you felt ready for sex and then engaged in it? I'm slightly at a loss, and would appreciate an explanation (althought obviously if you don't feel like explaining your formative sexual experiences I understand entirely).

[yonmei.livejournal.com]

Are you saying there _wasn't_ a point where you felt ready for sex and then engaged in it?

No, that's not what I'm saying.

[andrewducker]

In that case you know the moment I'm asking about. So what's the problem?

[yonmei.livejournal.com]

In that case you know the moment I'm asking about. So what's the problem?

What makes you think there was just one moment?

[andrewducker]

I did say "first" in the question.

[yonmei.livejournal.com]

Ah, but now we're back to "how do you define sex"? (And of course, I have no intention (http://www.livejournal.com/users/yonmei/2005/02/13/) of ever answering this poll...)