Date: 2025-04-20 07:25 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] bens_dad
Most of the autistic people in this study were women.
I am not at all sure that autistic boys mask to any great extend.

As a boy I was vaguely aware of pressure to conform, which I usually ignored.
Most of the time I did as I wanted and it was not a problem since it was what people I respected wanted me to do anyway.

While I am not certain I would recognise masking in my son, I think he too has a strong ability and desire to do what he wants and not what other people want him to do.

Date: 2025-04-21 05:51 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] channelpenguin
I am a woman, and if I'm autistic (Andrew could take a guess, he's known me since we were teenagers), I didn't (and don't) feel any so am urge to mask my (slight) weirdness. I've worked in IT all my life. My major hobbies have also been ones full of geeks (music, motorbikes,sailing) a lot of whom don't mask or don't mask much. So maybe I don't stand out!

I come from a family of engineers on both sides of my father's side and my mother is musically talented, a bit hyperactive and definitely socially "odd" like she often doesn't "get" people (also very impatient and great at optimising task parallelism). So, at home, I guess that oddness was normal?

Mind you, my sister is insanely good with numbers (like doing actuary exams for "fun" when she was managing a bunch of them type insane), but also the most effortlessly social of us all.

I know I'm dreadful with eye contact when speaking German, so I think there's definitely something hard about it when people have to think too hard about what and how they are going to say things!

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