The Hidden Rules of Conversation

Date: 2020-05-05 02:08 pm (UTC)
From: [personal profile] anna_wing
I agree with this for conversations that are mostly about sharing information. Conversations serve many other purposes as well, though, and those have their own separate sets of rules.

Conversations to show goodwill, to reaffirm connections, to induce one or other or both of the speakers to do specific things, to perform for an external party, to reaffirm a particular situation, to make a particular impression on one of the participants...all operate under different assumptions and rules. A lot of confusion occurs simply because two people may have entirely different ideas about what kind of conversation they're having.

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