Date: 2015-09-11 02:06 am (UTC)
marahmarie: (M In M Forever) (Default)
From: [personal profile] marahmarie
Forgive me if I misunderstand, but do you have some sort of skin in the game that you have to title something "If trends continue, Christianity will be gone from Britain by 2067 (Yay!)". What is the "Yay" for? When Christianity passes on, that benefits you how? I don't want to know, that question was just rhetorical.

I simply don't see how you take a line that would offend Muslims or Hindus or Jews or people of any other faith if you simply changed the name to one of theirs and use it to celebrate the death of someone's religion and feel OK about that. Am I the only Christian on your entire RL? I can always change that if it's a problem.

Also, you word your title as a prediction when it is not. The real title is:
"2067: the end of British Christianity
Projections aren't predictions. But there's no denying that churches are in deep trouble"

I follow you for your link lists, not your commentary, especially when it veers off into offending an entire faith base because you favor the Spaghetti Monster or nothing at all or whatever. I don't even care what you favor. The way you worded that is just...not cool.
Edited Date: 2015-09-11 02:14 am (UTC)

Date: 2015-09-15 11:12 pm (UTC)
marahmarie: (M In M Forever) (Default)
From: [personal profile] marahmarie
I don't know, it might just be me, maybe I've been hanging around DW too long and therefore become too PC for my own good (and I'm saying this as basically the Donald Trump of DW - in most respects the last thing I ever am around here is "too PC") but one thing me and the politically correct might have in common is an aspect of religious tolerance, I would think....you don't have to like any religion at all (I don't like most of them, including Judaism, despite my Jewish blood line) but you don't have to go talking trash about them, either...at least, that's how I feel about the whole thing. I really don't care if you hate every religion on earth and then some - I just don't want to hear about it, sorry. :(

Date: 2015-09-17 02:24 am (UTC)
marahmarie: (M In M Forever) (Default)
From: [personal profile] marahmarie
I am _totally_ tolerant of people having ideas that I think are completely wrong. I believe you should be allowed to express them, and that you should be allowed to continue believing them, and that coming into your space and telling you to stop believing your beliefs would be rude of me.

I know, I know, and that's why when people come into my online spaces and tell me what to say/write/think/or what not to, I tend to get cranky and tell them to GTFO because "my journal/I'll do/say/think what I want". That's why I stopped short of actually telling you what to write/what not to because duh, I have no right to do that to anyone and would not blame you or anyone else who blasted me for it.

I guess it's one thing to say that even that one single Yay! used in the context it was used in is like hate speech to me and that asking you to not do that again and you obliging would make me happy, but it's another thing to carry that out in practice: asking you not to write in a certain way is arrogant and frankly, quite preposterous, and expecting anyone to be amenable to that even more so. Yes, some people are quick not to re-offend those who are offended but not everyone is, and no one is obliged to change their posts for another (see my friends-locked Sticky at the top of my DW in which I ask people to tell me what offends them so I can either put them on a filter for those topics or just not write on those topics - except under a huge, blatantly obvious/fairly informative trigger warning - at all).

I guess I wish there was a way to formally filter out when you're going to do the anti-Christianity or anti-any religion thing in the middle of a link list (and/or as a separate post, but the link list thing is like, impossible for me to avoid, for patently obvious reasons). I'm all about accepting religions even if I don't like and don't agree with most of them, and to read anything against just stirs that pot inside of me that _does not_ want to be stirred, especially when I'm just casually browsing my RL. Short of not reading your posts anymore, I don't have a better solution to what is admittedly my problem, not yours, here.

Edited (forgot trigger warning part) Date: 2015-09-17 02:33 am (UTC)

Date: 2015-09-18 12:55 am (UTC)
marahmarie: (M In M Forever) (Default)
From: [personal profile] marahmarie
"Richard Dawkins" - *spits out coffee*

Yeah, there's certain writers I don't read. He's actually disliked by a lot of people but as it's slightly off-topic to get into what the reasons are besides his anti-religion stuff, I won't...

To me, religion falls into the latter bucket, and is thus fair game.

To me, the problem with that is people are often literally born into their religion and thus don't have any choice in the matter until they get old enough to make one. Once old enough to make a decision they often don't know what to decide, how to change the religion they practice, whether to stop practicing religion altogether, and a host of other confusing things. In the meantime while they are still steeped deep within their beliefs, along perhaps with the beliefs of their families and communities, I think it's unfair to expose them to a _hatred_ of their religion that they can't understand because they haven't been educated enough in what's wrong with their religion (and there is something wrong with every religion, without exception) to agree with understand the opinions they're subjected to.

I was raised loosely as a Christian by a mostly single mom who really had no known or stated use for God who still didn't mind throwing up a Christmas tree every year and giving us Easter baskets. My own Christianity was inborn and I really don't know where I got it from, especially since my father was Jewish, but without reading the Bible or being raised in or anywhere near a church I was writing poems about Christ when I was 7. I can't explain it, but it's like I was born Christian.

I didn't even begin to educate myself on what was wrong with my religion or anyone else's until I got online, which wasn't until my early 30s. That said, I find strict Christianity the least objectionable of all religions I could participate in, so that's why I stick with it. If I were to decide against Christianity at some point I'd probably go agnostic or atheist; I find all other religions objectionable enough in history, practices, and viewpoints (and even for the deities themselves, even when that deity is the same one I must support within Christianity) that I would not convert to those instead.

On the other hand, I understand people don't usually get to choose which religion they're born into/raised in, nor are they usually taught how to question their or their family's beliefs about those religions, so that's why I never, ever, ever make written comments about any religion that someone else might find critical or objectionable. I think undertaking a reasoned analysis of one's religion when one is ready to beats reading anyone's isolated, subjective opinion, which was why I kind of flailed at the tone of your post (sorry about that, btw; it just hit me the wrong way).

Thanks for understanding as much as you can; I really do appreciate it.
Edited (clarity) Date: 2015-09-18 01:34 am (UTC)

Date: 2015-09-12 04:33 pm (UTC)
matgb: Artwork of 19th century upper class anarchist, text: MatGB (Default)
From: [personal profile] matgb
when it veers off into offending an entire faith base because you favor the Spaghetti Monster or nothing at all

It is your assertion that favouring nothing is offensive that is actually offensive.

The idea that atheists by their very existence offends you is mindnumbingly offensive in and of itself.

Date: 2015-09-15 11:02 pm (UTC)
marahmarie: (M In M Forever) (Default)
From: [personal profile] marahmarie
I didn't realize I was talking to you, sorry. Thought this was Andrew's DW, not yours, but at any rate, you could not be more wrong. I wrote "I don't even care what you favor." I really don't. I don't see where you get off saying that I am offended by him (possibly) believing in nothing at all. I am not. I am offended by someone - anyone - on my RL celebrating the death of my - or anyone's - religion.

I am offended by A's apparent lack of tolerance. That is all.
Edited Date: 2015-09-15 11:03 pm (UTC)

Date: 2015-09-15 11:21 pm (UTC)
matgb: Artwork of 19th century upper class anarchist, text: MatGB (Default)
From: [personal profile] matgb
I didn't realize I was talking to you, sorry.
Public comment on a public post in a journal in which discussion between readers is the norm and actively encouraged?

I am offended by someone - anyone - on my RL celebrating the death of my - or anyone's - religion.

The day the last believer realises the error of their ways will be a good day for the world. The censorious prurience in your tone and your automatic assumption that you should be protected from 'offence' from those that don't share your 'faith' is your problem.

Your religion has large numbers of adherents, today, that think killing in the name of their faith is justified. If you want to stop people who reject such beliefs to stop wishing you'd all just go away, concentrate your fire and your efforts on stopping the extremists instead of complaining that you're offended by words.

I'm offended by death, destruction and slaughter done in the name of faith. I'm offended by world leaders deliberately letting people die in order to protect a "Christian Europe". And I'm offended by a "request" that someone censor their opinions because you dislike them.

Date: 2015-09-17 02:39 am (UTC)
marahmarie: (M In M Forever) (Default)
From: [personal profile] marahmarie
It's you. It's the fact that it's you. I replied to you in a DW thread years ago to tell you that your entrybar link code has a security vulnerability in it that you had just claimed it did not have and I have waited the ensuing two years for your non-existent reply or the fix for the code, which has also not been forthcoming. But you can sure jump right in here, can't you, and even reply to my replies. Which considering how you ignored me over a much more pressing matter back then is kind of infuriating. Besides which, whatever, dude. You completely misinterpreted what I was saying, seemingly on purpose, and I honestly did not think from what I've seen from you on DW otherwise that you could be like that - you remind me here of nothing so much as one of the more loudmouth assholes on reddit trying to stir up a fight for a fight's sake. No thanks.
Edited (added thought) Date: 2015-09-17 02:42 am (UTC)

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