Confession Time Again
Mar. 19th, 2005 10:16 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I currently have 222 people on my friends list, 34 communities and 58 syndicated feeds.
There is no way on Earth that I can possibly read all of that every day.
So I don't.
Instead I have an 'Important' friends list, a 'People' friends list and a 'MorePeople' friends list.
On the 'important' list are the people I am in contact with on a regular basis and therefore have to keep up with, and those people who regularly post things I find excrutiatingly interesting (computer talk, thoughts on the universe, rants about comic characters - what I think of as 'content' rather than 'soap opera'). This is my first port of call when I hit LJ (along with my comic friends list, of course), because if I failed to notice that someone on this list broke up with their long-term boyfriend then I'd get in trouble (and hey - they might have posted a long screed about why aquaman sucks).
On the 'People' list are people who I find interesting enough to read their soap opera, or people who occasionally post interesting things, or are friends at one remove, or otherwise interesting, but the world wouldn't end if I wasn't up to date with their lives. Ths gets read once a day, most of the time, but it's not so high priority.
On the 'MorePeople' list are people who I added back because they looked kinda interesting, but actually turned out to not be _that_ interesting. Or people I added back when the world was fresh and shiny and new and I only had two people on my friends list, so adding a third person was A Cool Thing To Do. And I have a sense of nostalgia about them, or don't want to offend them, or am just too busy to read everyone, so someone has to get moved down for a bit. This list gets flicked through once a week or so, if I'm bored.
Now, none of these are permanent filings - people get shuffled around on a semi-regular basis - I'll realise that I look forward to someone's posts, so they get moved to Important. Or I realise that someone's posted nothing but quizzes for three weeks, so they get moved to MorePeople. I'm not saying who's where, because this is a coping strategy, not a competition - you're all lovely people, and the fact that I have limited time has no bearing on your global ranking in the kewlness stakes.
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There is no way on Earth that I can possibly read all of that every day.
So I don't.
Instead I have an 'Important' friends list, a 'People' friends list and a 'MorePeople' friends list.
On the 'important' list are the people I am in contact with on a regular basis and therefore have to keep up with, and those people who regularly post things I find excrutiatingly interesting (computer talk, thoughts on the universe, rants about comic characters - what I think of as 'content' rather than 'soap opera'). This is my first port of call when I hit LJ (along with my comic friends list, of course), because if I failed to notice that someone on this list broke up with their long-term boyfriend then I'd get in trouble (and hey - they might have posted a long screed about why aquaman sucks).
On the 'People' list are people who I find interesting enough to read their soap opera, or people who occasionally post interesting things, or are friends at one remove, or otherwise interesting, but the world wouldn't end if I wasn't up to date with their lives. Ths gets read once a day, most of the time, but it's not so high priority.
On the 'MorePeople' list are people who I added back because they looked kinda interesting, but actually turned out to not be _that_ interesting. Or people I added back when the world was fresh and shiny and new and I only had two people on my friends list, so adding a third person was A Cool Thing To Do. And I have a sense of nostalgia about them, or don't want to offend them, or am just too busy to read everyone, so someone has to get moved down for a bit. This list gets flicked through once a week or so, if I'm bored.
Now, none of these are permanent filings - people get shuffled around on a semi-regular basis - I'll realise that I look forward to someone's posts, so they get moved to Important. Or I realise that someone's posted nothing but quizzes for three weeks, so they get moved to MorePeople. I'm not saying who's where, because this is a coping strategy, not a competition - you're all lovely people, and the fact that I have limited time has no bearing on your global ranking in the kewlness stakes.
[Poll #457482]
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Date: 2005-03-19 11:27 am (UTC)For reading, I primarily use my "Short List" (only the people whose journals I really don't like to lose track of, but this includes some communities and some people I don't know all that well ... it's just stuff I really don't want to miss), "Medium List" (everyone -- and all communities -- that I wish I could be reading every day if I only had the time), and "Long List" (every single darn person I have friended -- even if I have no interest in them and friended them only to give them access to my locked entries -- and every single community I have friended, as well, including the ones that get way too much traffic). I only read my "Long List" when I'm bored out of my mind or have WAY too much time to waste.
I'm curious about your own filtering system. I'm guessing I'm on "Friends"?
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Date: 2005-03-19 12:07 pm (UTC)I can not see anything good coming out of telling anyone what friends list they're on. If I reassure one person then someone else will ask who possibly _isn't_ on the people list. So you'll just have to live without the knowledge I'm afraid.
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Date: 2005-03-19 11:55 am (UTC)I tend to scroll through my FL and read most things, but some of them I just skip over. Sometimes that's specific people, but more often it's just the type of post (eg the post from you a little while ago that had a block of code in the middle, which I did rather just scroll past!).
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Date: 2005-03-19 12:08 pm (UTC)But when I do, the read-every-day group would contain all on my mutual friends list and a mix of others I wouldn't want to miss.
Regardless, I'd still not have time to read every post in that group, but I'd definitely skim them all.
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Date: 2005-03-19 12:11 pm (UTC)A much better way of working for me...
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Date: 2005-03-19 12:25 pm (UTC)It's the only way I've found of reading multiple RSS feeds in multiple locations and not getting confused as to where I've read up to. If I'm reading my SynPeople flist and get up to one I've read before, I'm up to date!
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Date: 2005-03-19 01:01 pm (UTC)Hmm, I wonder if there's an RSS reader that also posts to del.icio.us...
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Date: 2005-03-19 12:59 pm (UTC)I may not bother to click through cut tags or read really long posts, and I primarily view with no images so I might not see photographs, new icons or really long posts. I very much appreciate cut tags being there when necessary.
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Date: 2005-03-19 12:42 pm (UTC)I used to just read the whole friends page, but I added
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Date: 2005-03-19 04:29 pm (UTC)Depending how busy I am, I usually scan my friend's list for people first, skipping the longer posts; then if time allows I'll go read the longer posts, then if I still have time I'll read through the various feeds I subscribe to.
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Date: 2005-03-19 07:00 pm (UTC)i'm certainly in the uninteresting drama filter. :) i should come up with some thoughts on universe...
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Date: 2005-03-19 07:17 pm (UTC)I skim a lot, though. Some people I rarely read, others I will read everything they post.
I forget about filters too much to use them.
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Date: 2005-03-19 08:36 pm (UTC)Of course, I skim a lot of it, if I'm not immediately interested within the first few sentences. But I think everyone does that.
(188 people, 69 communities, 7 syn feeds.)
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Date: 2005-03-19 08:52 pm (UTC)Most of my communities I skim to see if the post is anything I care about and then continue on.
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Date: 2005-03-19 09:44 pm (UTC)If I have to be really quick, then I'm sorry to say I skip some of the longer posts - which is sad because often they are very interesting and thought-provoking.
Generally when I have team I'll at least skim all posts and generally read them unless it's a subject that doesn't interest me / I don't have the knowledge or time to give the content much thought or comment.
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Date: 2005-03-20 09:16 am (UTC):p I post so rarely I couldn't possibly clog up anyone's frends page!
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Date: 2005-03-21 10:15 am (UTC)I moved all my non-LJ feeds off to bloglines. With them on my friends page I was getting too far behind/skimming too many--the content just appeared too fast! This way it stays there until I have some time to read it.
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