Some of the people who know me might be surprised to hear me describe myself as a hedonist.
But I am.
I believe life has no meaning and that the only reasonable thing to do is have as much fun as possible before you die. Which isn't to say that I want to get out there and snort cocaine off of hookers. There are two reasons for this:
1) I don't actually think that sounds like a lot of fun
2) I know that the long term consequences means that my fun quotient would be significantly diminished in the future.
The things I think of as fun aren't the same as most people - most people wouldn't want to spend the afternoon researching different encodings of video formats and the effect it has when trying to play burnt DVDs in different video recorders. Or downloading different transcoding software to find one that will get it working. But the sense of satisfaction I get from it is pretty much as high as from anything I do - to me it's good fun.
I'm a _geeky_ hedonist - doing geeky fun things to pass my geeky fun life.
But I am.
I believe life has no meaning and that the only reasonable thing to do is have as much fun as possible before you die. Which isn't to say that I want to get out there and snort cocaine off of hookers. There are two reasons for this:
1) I don't actually think that sounds like a lot of fun
2) I know that the long term consequences means that my fun quotient would be significantly diminished in the future.
The things I think of as fun aren't the same as most people - most people wouldn't want to spend the afternoon researching different encodings of video formats and the effect it has when trying to play burnt DVDs in different video recorders. Or downloading different transcoding software to find one that will get it working. But the sense of satisfaction I get from it is pretty much as high as from anything I do - to me it's good fun.
I'm a _geeky_ hedonist - doing geeky fun things to pass my geeky fun life.
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Date: 2004-08-07 03:42 pm (UTC)2) Agreed.
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Date: 2004-08-07 03:45 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-07 03:54 pm (UTC)says me - who IS a hedonist :->
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Date: 2004-08-07 03:55 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-07 03:56 pm (UTC)The doctrine holding that behavior is motivated by the desire for pleasure and the avoidance of pain.
Just because my pleasure is largely intellectual doesn't mean it isn't pleasure.
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Date: 2004-08-07 04:09 pm (UTC)That sentence was brought to you by adverbs.
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Date: 2004-08-07 04:40 pm (UTC)Rather like the sort of pleasure I get from lying on a beach in fact now I think about it:-)
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Date: 2004-08-07 04:44 pm (UTC)I'm of to bed too now for some simple pleasures of zzz :->
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Date: 2004-08-07 04:50 pm (UTC)Checking your home email from your PDA at work, when I tell you (in a work email) that I've sent something to it, for example...
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Date: 2004-08-07 05:30 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-08 12:44 am (UTC)Yep.
I think hedonism has a bad press because its biggest advocates are actually unhappy, but desparately trying to prove (mainly to themselves) that they "know how to have a good time".
Really they're mistaking sensory overload for enjoyment.
Which is not to say that staying out partying until it's light isn't fun... it's just that a quiet cup of tea with a good friend can also be fun.
(The jury is still out on whether or not my kids making loud kissing noises in my ears (as they're both doing just now) is fun... possibly for them...)
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Date: 2004-08-08 01:48 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2004-08-08 02:29 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-08 02:43 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-08 02:46 am (UTC)"I believe life has no meaning"
which means I don't take it seriously.
For some reason you then decided to bring meaning into it...
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Date: 2004-08-08 03:07 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-08 03:07 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-08 03:47 am (UTC)This sounds a bit like my entry on morality from a little while back. Lack of any externally imposed meaning or morality doesn't have to mean living only for now, although many people (both religious and non-religious) seem to think it does.
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Date: 2004-08-08 03:48 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-08 04:10 am (UTC)But it leaves you with a meaning that you're fully aware is invented. You're playing a game with rules you've made up.When you're entirely aware that the rules could be anything arbitrary, can you really believe in them?
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Date: 2004-08-08 04:35 am (UTC)Cheers for the entry!
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Date: 2004-08-08 05:35 am (UTC)> Lack of any externally imposed meaning or morality doesn't have to mean living only for now,
Ages ago (can't find the post) I was suggesting that one reason people act for the common good is that everyone (except sociopaths) cares about someone outside themselves, so on average there's a series of overlapping networks of people caring about each other and trying to help each other.
(I don't know if it was that post or another of my more optimistic pieces on the human condition that caused
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Date: 2004-08-08 05:48 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-08 05:53 am (UTC)Can't remember the exact context, though.
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Date: 2004-08-08 06:08 am (UTC)I might have misunderstood.
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Date: 2004-08-08 09:31 am (UTC)Possibly I didn't make it clear enough in the initial post. :-)
I think it was about whether there were moral rules that applied to the whole of humanity regardless of culture (with the exception of the crazy cultures that self-destruct quickly), and I said that not killing people was one.
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Date: 2004-08-08 02:22 pm (UTC)Thus ignoring the vast amount of killing that goes on all the time in every culture?
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Date: 2004-08-08 04:18 pm (UTC)That said, I don't think of myself as acting for the common good so much as acting in my own long-term self interest. When I were a Christian, I spent a lot of time trying to conjure up goodwill to all men without much success, whereas self interest is much easier to come by :-)
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Date: 2004-08-09 12:33 am (UTC)And it's almost universally regarded as a bad thing.
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Date: 2004-08-09 12:36 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-09 12:43 am (UTC)Yes.
Training and propaganda have a lot to answer for...
> acting for the common good so much as acting in my own long-term self interest
There's definitely an element of that.
I don't like desparate and aggressive beggars on the streets I have to walk down, therefore I support improved social security.
I want a society where bright people become brain surgeons, not master criminals, therefore I support the reintroduction of student grants.
And in some ways it's pragmatic to help my friends, because if they're happy then my environment is more pleasant.
But also, I do feel a degree of duty towards humanity in general (I was raised as an ethical atheist, so I never felt that god had anything to do with morals).
I believe in Fair Trade, just because it's... well... Fair.