Date: 2026-03-28 01:25 pm (UTC)
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4) Very chewable. I have seen rhetoric defining straight white men as the problem. I can't give examples because it's nuggets over many years. But I never felt personally attacked, partly because I've found feminist women to be friendly towards men who want to engage, and partly because the rhetoric is right, many straight white men are appalling. I guess another factor is that I want what the left is selling regarding personal relationships. I don't want a compliant woman, ugh, I want an equal relationship. And that is what I was taught by growing up in the heyday of second-wave feminism. Why other men of my age didn't pick that up I don't know.

I do believe that hypergamy is real - that is, that there are women out there who treat men like walking wallets. But they are few, and are vastly outnumbered by men who think women are walking vaginas - I recently read of a man saying that openly and literally. I have never read a women openly saying men are walking wallets, outside of fiction.

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Date: 2026-03-28 01:42 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] channelpenguin
Especially when young, most of us are at least fairly keen on getting laid. With age and retrospect, it can be a much much bigger subconscious driver than many of us appreciate at the time. But that's no excuse to turn into an asshole or fuck up society. Which seems to me kinda how the whole "manosphere" wants to be/go.

Where money is security, then equality in everything to do with earning and retaining it is to everyone's benefit. Society in most places doesn't fully support this, in all the ways I'm sure everyone here can list out.

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