Relationships
Oct. 21st, 2003 08:22 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
This theory is not true.
Well, mostly not true.
Well, partly not true.
Actually, it seems to be true an awful lot of the time.
Well, mostly not true.
Well, partly not true.
Actually, it seems to be true an awful lot of the time.
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Date: 2003-10-21 07:12 am (UTC)That guy really hates women, doesn't he?
There are some really obvious contradictions in his theory - he says women rate guys mainly on how much money they have, then later on (in Construction of the Ladder) insists that they find unemployable alcoholics more attractive than regular guys.
And as to : IF A MAN FINDS YOU ATTRACTIVE YOU CANNOT BE FRIENDS
That's just nonsense.
If you're lucky then one or two of your friends will be yours unconditionally 'til death do you part. The rest of your friends come with all sorts of baggage which makes their friendship with you to some extent conditional on external factors. Fancying a friend is just one more type of baggage, but really it's not any more destructive of friendships than any other kind.
Friends who fancy you are just as "real" as 99% of the friends who don't.
Oh and he's using the classic defintion of "bitch" meaning "woman who won't sleep with me" (which he estimates as 99.999% of women) then later says "Not a single woman who wasn't a bitch has ever complained about misogyny at this site."
So that means, by his own estimation 99.999% of women would say he was being misogynist, while a mere 0.001% fail to see through him... :o)