Date: 2025-01-19 01:42 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] gingicat
Thank you for that third one.

Date: 2025-01-19 01:52 pm (UTC)
mountainkiss: (Default)
From: [personal profile] mountainkiss
I am intrigued that you have posted item 3.

Last time we talked about this, admittedly via messaging where you and I constantly fall over low bandwidth, I said how much I dislike that sort of stuff and got the impression that you agreed. So I am intrigued to see this here. Have I entirely misunderstood your position, or failed to communicate mine?

To be clear, my interest here is not to dispute your position if you support the article’s thesis. It is to understand your belief.

Date: 2025-01-19 01:59 pm (UTC)
mountainkiss: (Default)
From: [personal profile] mountainkiss

Oh I’d love to read that.

The phrasing I used in our conversation IIRC is “it’s all the fault of an ableist world”. That’s the tone that I can’t get past and it’s a pain because I so want to get into the content and build a proper model.

To be clear - I understand that this is super freeing for lots of people who have been othered in really abusive ways, and I do not speak against it. It might well be useful for more people than not (though definitely not 100%; see also conversations passim). But I find it so annoying that I can’t make my way through it, and I got the impression you felt the same way. I’m not advocating here, truly, but am keen to understand whether / where I’ve misinterpreted you.

Date: 2025-01-20 07:30 pm (UTC)
mountainkiss: (Default)
From: [personal profile] mountainkiss
I think we've got different benchmarks. I went back and read it again and saw very little if anything in the way of nuance. For me, this is a polemic piece and on this topic I don't play for that team.

Date: 2025-01-21 07:38 am (UTC)
mountainkiss: (Default)
From: [personal profile] mountainkiss

I thought about this overnight. I think it’s a another piece of the jigsaw puzzle.

I think that what’s going on here – though I am not certain – is that there are a lot of statements in this article that to you are obviously true and to me are debatable. Therefore I read the tone as making an argument and you read it as reporting facts.

I may be wrong about this. I am trying to leave my job and it is more difficult than I thought, so I’m trying to avoid going through this to pick out sentences. But that’s probably the next step if you think I’m way off base or I’m not making sense.

Date: 2025-01-21 07:56 am (UTC)
mountainkiss: (Default)
From: [personal profile] mountainkiss

Okay rewrite my statement to make it less black and white. That to me are more debatable than to you? I mean, if you correct for my language then does the basic thesis hold for you?

Date: 2025-01-21 09:15 am (UTC)
mountainkiss: (Default)
From: [personal profile] mountainkiss

I am clearly not making my point at all sorry.

If we stipulate that you are happy to debate anything (which seems more consistently backed up by data than any hypothesis ever) then can you relate to the underlying principle of why an article derived from axiomata to which you relate more naturally than I do will seem more polemic to me than you? Otherwise we will I think prob have to go to sentence level.

Date: 2025-01-21 07:56 am (UTC)
mountainkiss: (Default)
From: [personal profile] mountainkiss

(It’s not particularly today. My last day is 17/2. But it’s quite a draining process.)

Date: 2025-01-19 02:31 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] nancylebov
2. Charlie Stross may be shutting down his long-running commenting community. Or maybe not. It's not clear whether the law covers small sites, or exactly what is forbidden.

https://www.antipope.org/charlie/blog-static/2024/12/storm-cloud-approaching-rapidl.html#comments

Date: 2025-01-21 08:01 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] hairyears
When ridicule is ineffective, we should ask the question: "Who gains?"

Clearly, Facebook do.

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