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From: [personal profile] channelpenguin
I did this 20 years ago in London. All the time. I never got foul language, though I did get loads of utterly surprised men. I used to just say "You didn't get out of my way, I didn't get out of yours - fair dos?"
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From: [personal profile] channelpenguin
men also look shocked when you don't get feet out thier way when sitting in narrow trains or corridors.
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From: [personal profile] rmc28
I had a bloke sit down next to me on a crowded train and spread his legs assuming I'd move mine when his leg bashed into mine. I planted my feet exactly in front of me and carried on reading, and after about five minutes of huffing, he stopped shoving.

(didn't actually SAY anything to me mind, just pushed his leg into mine for five minutes)

Date: 2019-06-13 06:09 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] dewline
*winces*
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From: [personal profile] snippy
If they won't give me the space allotted to my seat, I start spreading my legs. I will sit there, straining my thighs against theirs, the whole way.
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From: [personal profile] snippy
I do it all the time. I make men get out of my way. I stare them right in their eyes while frowning and walking right at them.

Date: 2019-06-13 03:17 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] dewline
2. I am working on those better travelling habits. I don't know how much progress I've made on ingraining them into my brain.

9. Yep. That ripoff is still in progress. And now the MIB movies are a Disney thing, right? Aircel - which used to be based here in Ottawa - got bought by Malibu, which got bought by Marvel...and I know the original artist, Sandy Carruthers. He's also still just getting by.

15. So that's still ongoing, too, dammit.

Edited Date: 2019-06-13 06:12 pm (UTC)

Date: 2019-06-13 04:37 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] steepholm
The difference between how male pedestrians regarded me before and after I transitioned is very marked. I was thinking about it just yesterday, oddly.

Date: 2019-06-13 04:56 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] lilysea
A woman decided to start walking down the street like a man. Spoiler: it didn't go well

I'm a woman. Men refused to get out of my way when I was using a walking-stick.

Men refused to get out of my way when I was using a four-wheeled walking frame (and they were VERY surprised when this resulted in the steel walking frame banging into their shins).

Men refuse to get out of my way when I'm using a power wheelchair, and then they get verbally aggro at me when I continue in a straight line and they are forced to move aside or have their foot run over. [I'm not doing this just to prove a point: people on foot have a much smaller turning circle than people using a wheelchair do. Also tight turns aggravate my back/hip/leg pain for days or even weeks.]

Apparently gender rules about women giving way to men supersede common sense.

Date: 2019-06-13 06:26 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] calimac
It's not just women. Men decline to get out of other men's ways too. I know; I am one of those other men. You're reading as a sexist sense of superiority something which is just a sense of superiority.

Date: 2019-06-13 06:44 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] ninetydegrees
"A woman decided to start walking down the street like a man. Spoiler: it didn't go well"

I actually do this a lot now. Not the super aggravating hey I'm taking all the space, shove over to let ME pass thing, just not getting out of my way and taking the space I, a fellow human being, should have when there is space for two people or more. Same things on public stairs, public seats. Don't care if I have to use my elbow, stomp some feet, sit on some bag or press uncomfortably into someone's leg or just plain stop walking so the other person has to move. If some people who clearly saw me want to pretend I don't exist, I'll do the same.

And yeah, it's not just men, women in groups do it a lot too now. But men are still the stupidest about this.

Date: 2019-06-16 06:34 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] lilysea
Once upon a time, I was getting on a very crowded bus. I was on my way to work, and couldn't wait for the next bus, or my boss would scold me.

There was one empty seat - a priority seat, next to an elderly man. He was sitting on the aisle side of the seat, thus completely blocking access to the window side of the seat, despite being a very slender man.

I needed to sit or I would fall down and/or badly aggravate my back pain for days/weeks/months.

I asked him to move. He ignored me.

So I started lowering my bottom slowly into the seat, assuming he'd move.

He didn't.

So I sat on him.

Oh, how he howled!

"You SAT on me!"

Well, yeah. You're a very slender man, you don't get to take up two whole priority seats when I really need one.

And I gave him plenty of warning.

Date: 2019-06-13 06:50 pm (UTC)
ninetydegrees: Art & Text: heart with aroace colors, "you are loved" (Default)
From: [personal profile] ninetydegrees
"The thirteen countries where being an atheist is punishable by death"

This thread is heavily Islamophobic and the same goes for the Twitter account judging from recent tweets. I'm not sure what it's doing in your list, tbh.

Date: 2019-06-16 06:33 am (UTC)
lilysea: Wheelchair user: thoughful (Wheelchair user: thoughful)
From: [personal profile] lilysea
Once upon a time, I was getting on a very crowded bus. I was on my way to work, and couldn't wait for the next bus, or my boss would scold me and/or punish me.

There was one empty seat - a priority seat, next to an elderly man. He was sitting on the aisle side of the seat, thus completely blocking access to the window side of the seat, despite being a very slender man.

I needed to sit or I would fall down and/or badly aggravate my back pain for days/weeks/months.

I asked him to move. He ignored me.

So I started lowering my bottom slowly into the seat, assuming he'd move.

He didn't.

So I sat on him.

Oh, how he howled!

"You SAT on me!"

Well, yeah. You're a very slender man, you don't get to take up two whole priority seats when I really need one.

And I gave him plenty of warning.

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