Date: 2012-07-16 11:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bart-calendar.livejournal.com
You know, I've always been torn on the Sarah Silverman doctor rape joke. My initial reaction is to laugh but the racial element makes me somewhat uncomfortable.

Date: 2012-07-16 12:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bart-calendar.livejournal.com
Oh, I'm not saying there is anything wrong with it - jokes are supposed to be transgressive. Just that for me there is a squick factor along with the laughter (though that may be what she's trying to do.)

Date: 2012-07-16 01:46 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] innerbrat
I don't find it funny, as a rape joke and for the racial element.

I'm not triggered by it, mind, and I don't find it offensive, but I wouldn't laugh.

Date: 2012-07-16 12:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] danieldwilliam.livejournal.com
The railway investments are good news personally as I tend to travel on the London to Bristol and East Coast main lines and have family in Derby.

£9bn well spent as far as I’m concerned. Except the bit of it spent in the Welsh valleys, where nobody important lives.

15 Rape Jokes That Work

Date: 2012-07-16 12:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cartesiandaemon.livejournal.com
In general, I've been really impressed by "Feminists tell rape jokes to show how to do it right" week: the criticism of that awful comedian has been appropriately irate, but also helpfully specific and informative, not just undirected hatred!

In fact, I was rather shocked by some of the 15. It seems there's several different ways a joke can "not work":

It can actually be wrong, independent of its humour value: eg. jokes involving actual violence or actual threats of violence, or (in this case) threats that someone who's not a tool would see would be more intimidating than they are funny. These are generally not funny, but unless they're happening to people who don't mind or actually deserve it (which is vanishingly rare), they're unnaceptable even if they are funny.

It can endorse an offensive topic. This is obviously somewhat subjective, since jokes relying on the idea of "lets go out and kill X people" can be funny if you know there are people who want to do that, even if you don't want to yourself, but are *more* funny if you do. I think this is subtly different than jokes *about* people who want to blah, and it's confusing because the same joke may actually work for both (one of the jokes linked could be taken as either endorsing, or making fun of, if you didn't know the context).

Those can be ok, but only if you're not endorsing, so they're risky even if you're edgy.

Some "edgy" humour is here, if it's about things lots of people might like but don't want to admit, eg. jokes that assume that male listeners all want irresponsible sex with good-looking people, or all women listeners want romance-novel-heros. And how acceptible it is depends on how acceptible the ideas are.

And some jokes don't endorse anything bad, but squick listeners because they mention something people find very sensitive. Ideally no-one thinks these jokes are bad, they're just bad to spring on people without warning (like a joke about funerals may not inherently be offensive, but is offensive to tell to someone who's had a relative just die). Sort of "unoffensive edgy jokes". Unfortunately, there's a massive overlap with the previous category, and it's hard to see how much the offensiveness is inherent, and how mcuh the joke is not inherently offensive, but is offensive in almost any company.

I'm not sure how accurate that taxonomy is, but it's how I thought about it. So none of the jokes linked that I saw I thought were inherently offensive (in that, none seemed to be endorsing rape), but unrelated to them being jokes, there's still a difficult line to walk with something like rape, between "aknowledging how common it can be" and "avoiding implicitly endorsing it as normal" -- eg. there's significant problems with advocating punsihment rape, even in jest, even of Hitler... :)

Date: 2012-07-16 02:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] danieldwilliam.livejournal.com
Reading the Google article I would describe Google as pursuing a resource based strategy, rather than a position based strategy. They start with the question, what can we do that no one else can do and how do we make that pay? Rather than starting with the question, what is going to pay and how do we do that?

Date: 2012-07-16 02:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] danieldwilliam.livejournal.com
There’s lots in that article about toddlers that I recognise.

I have a two year old son and a fourteen year old daughter. They day to day management of the teenager is much easier. She can understand instructions and can agree to carry out tasks she doesn’t want to in the common interest or for longer term gain. She doesn’t want to play in the traffic.

Granted, she is quite a reasonable teenager, appears to have a good handle on her own long term interests and her own view of her long term best interests is in the same grain as my view of her long term best interests and, I think, also reality (i.e. she is hoping to go to a good university and earn her living with a combination of knowledge thus acquired and intelligence rather than make her living becoming Cheryl Tweedy.)

The toddler, The Captain is full of enthusiasm for stuff, which is both beautiful and bizarre. He can and will spend a long time looking at a bee collecting pollen. A walk out can often turn into an expedition to count all of Edinburgh’s motor cycles. He asks Why? all the time. It’s really just a way of saying “Say More About That.”

He has no concept of danger or of time. Last week we took him to a children’s adventure playgroud in East Lothian and he climbed up a rope scramble net to a height of three stories. Yesterday, we took him out for a ride on his scooter and he ended up circumnavigating Marchmont and then was both baffled and dismayed to return home to discover that CBeebies had stopped transmitting and that it was bed time.

The thing I notice about toddlers that isn’t picked out in the article is how they play back at you what they observe in you. The Capt’s current catchphrases include “Hang on a minute.” And “Ummmm, No.” both things that MLW and I find ourselves saying all the time.

He’s started reading his stories to us which is revealling the connections he is making in his own head about how the world is and works.

I personally think we have to go with him. It takes longer but it’s more fun.

Date: 2012-07-20 05:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] apostle-of-eris.livejournal.com
A terrifyingly honest way of seeing how a little kid is parented is watching the kid with a smaller kid.

Date: 2012-07-16 05:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] channelpenguin.livejournal.com
I find most people are far more like the description of the toddler than they'd ever probably realise... just some of us hide it a bit better, and develop a tad more cunning :-). Or maybe not, maybe I'm just biased, because I like the kind of people who have that kind of curiousity and love of life...

...probably because my own sensibleness/logic/controlfreakery often disconnects me from that and I need the reminders!

I'd also say that as a teenager I should probably have followed a path guided by what I loved rather than railroading myself so hard into a sensible one. I think I'd have been happier and actually achieved more. Easy to say, not so easy to do - at any age. Takes a shitload of proper courage.
Edited Date: 2012-07-16 05:37 pm (UTC)

Date: 2012-07-17 09:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] naath.livejournal.com
I think the problem with toddlers is that they *can't* hide it - the toddler-brain just isn't wired to understand logic like "do X now and you can have Y later" or "do X now to avoid Z later". Most adults can at least manage to channel their selfish desires through more than one step.

Date: 2012-07-17 09:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] channelpenguin.livejournal.com
true. we just get better at trying to get what we want. Emotionally it feels just the same....
Edited Date: 2012-07-17 09:46 am (UTC)

Date: 2012-07-20 05:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] apostle-of-eris.livejournal.com
I only know the rape-joke kerfluffle third hand, from places like this, but my first reaction was uncertain. I'm not sure I know any rape jokes at all, but certainly not one I'd consider funny.
But Mel Brooks' "Springtime for Hitler" (The Producers) is hysterical, and he covered a LOT of ground in "Black Bart" (Blazing Saddles). Dick Gregory titled his autobiography "Nigger" and dedicated it to his mother: "if you ever hear that word again, you'll know they're advertising my book".
So I was willing to accept the theoretical possibility of a funny rape joke. It's not surprising that a plurality are from The Onion, but the Silverman near the end is the winner for savagery.

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