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Date: 2010-05-07 12:56 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-05-07 01:44 pm (UTC)I'm glad to have had my university education, and glad to be able to wait till I'm 32 to start a family, and very glad to be married to the girl I met when I was 26 rather than the one I met when I was 18. But vast swathes of society around the world has had arranged marriages of teenagers, and it basically worked. The way things used to be as depicted in that article seems to be two teenagers who might not have ended up staying together for their lives get married young, and learn to be responsible adults and learn to love and care for each other even though they're different... that seems to have some important lessons about maturity that the modern way has lost.
(I do appreciate that there's a dark side to this idyllic picture, with a lot of domestic violence and suchlike... but there still seems to be a lot of that even in our more enlightened times.)
It seems sad that red America has only managed to hold onto half of that, and the teenage marriages half doesn't work at all when the culture of easy divorce has spread into red America despite its best efforts.
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Date: 2010-05-07 01:47 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-05-07 05:15 pm (UTC)from every fodder-fed cow!"