Date: 2024-02-11 12:59 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] cmcmck
1. I was born with an intersex condition and AMAB, but it's probably as well that no one noticed and I had to sort things out for myself later when 'they' realised and was able to make my own decisions. It seems that 95% of those born with PAIS (partial androgen insensitivity syndrome) which I had or CAIS (complete androgen insensitivity syndrome) choose to adjust their gender.

Date: 2024-02-11 03:42 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] calimac
1) And the "sex is purely binary" people try to deny that intersex exists (they just need to be "fixed," with results as described in the article), or if forced to admit their existence, brush them of as being of insignificant number. (On the other hand, a few transitioners who regret their transition, and it's a demand for a halt to the whole procedure.)

2) The argument that the plain meaning of the schedule* is that if it looks as if a majority in NI favor unification with the Republic then it would be unreasonable to refuse a referendum - this interests me, because it reminds me over here of the plain meaning of the 14th Amendment that DT is ineligible for office, yet the Court seems minded to be unreasonable about it.

*It's been my understanding that 'shedule' is the usual British pronunciation while 'skedule' is purely American. Is that wrong?

Date: 2024-02-12 08:13 am (UTC)
hairyears: Spilosoma viginica caterpillar: luxuriant white hair and a 'Dougal' face with antennae. Small, hairy, and venomous (Default)
From: [personal profile] hairyears
Yes: the Received Pronunciation of 'shedule' is "A painfil pustule on the buttock, shaped like a garden shed".

A quick look at your Outlook Meeting Scheduler will show that it it full of useless tools.


Edited (Added supporting evidence ) Date: 2024-02-12 08:21 am (UTC)

Bodily autonomy

Date: 2024-02-11 07:06 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] bens_dad
Ben was born with a non-integer (larger than median and mode) number of thumbs.
Were we wrong to ask surgeons to do something to make his hand fit standard gloves and mittens, not to mention remove an opportunity for his peers to tease him, rather than wait for him to be able to chose for himself ?

Re: Bodily autonomy

Date: 2024-02-12 04:45 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] bens_dad
Thanks.

I was stuck at there being no difference in principle between the two cases. Your questions give me a way of looking that allows me to see the cases differently.
I'm not very comfortable about how we made our choice, but reasured that it might have been the right choice anyway.

Re: Bodily autonomy

Date: 2024-02-12 05:19 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] bens_dad
We definitely weren't rushed (though we were told we should either have it done before he would be aware or delay it until he would understand, and given the efforts he made to remove the bandages we may have failed to do the former) as he was a over a year old when we had the first discussion about removing the extra piece of thumb, and I don't feel we were pushed, although I would have been happier if we had been challenged.

Ben and I have both been circumcised, but for medical reasons. I wouldn't have chosen it for either of us, but in both cases not doing it didn't feel like it was an option. Unlike his thumb, I hadn't even thought of the decision in Ben's case was a choice. I had had mine in my forties, so I did have a much better idea than most people what the options meant when we gave the go ahead for his.

Date: 2024-02-12 09:55 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] yalovetz
Several people close to me are intersex and have harrowing stories of their medical treatment as children/young people that still scar them mentally and physically today. They are involved in intersex activism to prevent the same or similar things happening to other intersex children, and face constant push back from medical practitioners who still insist that they are providing appropriate medical care, despite all the evidence against this.

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