Date: 2023-06-22 12:10 pm (UTC)
channelpenguin: (Default)
From: [personal profile] channelpenguin
1. Exactly my opinion after 10 minutes playing. And my colleagues after much more.

Date: 2023-06-22 12:34 pm (UTC)
cmcmck: (Default)
From: [personal profile] cmcmck
3. As you say, OFFS!

3.

Date: 2023-06-22 02:17 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] wildeabandon
I have really conflicted feelings about whether people should be able to consent to conversion therapy. I think that I've mostly come down on the side of "in the real world where we are now there are too many bad actors, and too many dangerous practices for anything other than a complete ban to be safe", but I do think that comes at the cost of also banning support that would be healthy and helpful for some people.

For me the most obvious example is that when a monosexual person's partner transitions, and they don't want to either split up, open the relationship, or remain celibate, it should be possible for a therapist to help them seek out and nurture enough attraction to their partner to sustain a sexual relationship. As far as I can tell, the studies that show that conversion therapy doesn't work are all about turning someone from gay to straight. I've not been able to find any that look at the viability of shifting the needle from Kinsey six to five, or from zero to one, but both my intuitive sense and anecdotal evidence suggest to me that it's at least more plausible.

But if that can be offered to people whose partner transitions, it seems like it should also be possible to offer similar support to someone who wanted to enter a partnership with someone of a sex they're not usually attracted to whatever their reasons for doing so (obviously with the informed consent of the other party).

Similarly, if someone is exclusively same-sex attracted but has decided that their conscience doesn't permit them to act on that attraction, they may well need support in living out that choice and grieving what they have lost, and although this support can be given without trying to change someone's inherent sexuality, I worry that it will nonetheless be withdrawn because of fears of prosecution.

As I say, I lean towards accepting that losing the potential for this kind of support is the price that must be paid for eliminating the abusive and harmful practices that we generally mean when we talk about conversion therapy, but it is a real cost, and one which is likely to fall on vulnerable shoulders for the most part.
Edited (words added for clarity) Date: 2023-06-22 02:18 pm (UTC)

Re: 3.

Date: 2023-06-23 10:44 am (UTC)
jack: (Default)
From: [personal profile] jack
Ugh, good point :( I think that anything *presented* as conversion therapy is overwhelmingly going to be the coercive sort, but I hadn't considered those other things (which I think are fine, and some of which people *need* for some situations).

I don't even know how a ban would likely be implemented. I skimmed govt proposal https://www.gov.uk/government/consultations/banning-conversion-therapy/banning-conversion-therapy and random EU summary https://www.europarl.europa.eu/RegData/etudes/BRIE/2022/733521/EPRS_BRI(2022)733521_EN.pdf and mostly learned that drafting laws is complicated. I got a vibe of "details written by someone paying attention, in the direction proposed by political determination". I could imagine several different approaches, e.g. emphasising anything promising a complete reversal of sexuality, or emphasising things that are clearly coercive even if obstensibly consented to, or emphasising removal of attraction vs cultivation of attraction. I know some laws are surprisingly well written and seem to cover what they SHOULD cover and competently NOT cover what they shouldn't, and others are written bluntly over-broadly and ban all kinds of things that shouldn't ever have been banned, but I don't know when you get whihc sort.

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Date: 2023-06-23 01:20 pm (UTC)
danieldwilliam: (Default)
From: [personal profile] danieldwilliam
That's a very interesting dissenting opinion in the New Zealand polyamorous property split case. Basically saying that the legislation is set up to be about two people pairings and partnerships and if you have to artificially split up a 3-person polyamorous in to a set of bi-lateral relationships then you're trying to get round the implied restriction in the act that de facto property rights only apply to 2-person partnerships.

I would not be hugely surprised if the New Zealand Supreme Court did not overturn this judgement in line with that opinion. The Court of Appeal could be said to have extended the scope of the legislation in a way that English common law systems are not too happy about.

Re: 4

Date: 2023-06-25 06:44 am (UTC)
errolwi: (Default)
From: [personal profile] errolwi
This is the Supreme Court over-ruling the Court of Appeal.
See also comments at https://andrewducker.dreamwidth.org/4307003.html?thread=30163259#cmt30163259

Re: 4

Date: 2023-06-26 09:13 am (UTC)
danieldwilliam: (Default)
From: [personal profile] danieldwilliam
Ah, thanks. I'd completely misread the article and the headline and so on.

I agree with the comments you've pointed to that this is a bit of stretch by the Supreme Court. Given that I thought they would overrule this decision I am, also surprised that they have made it.

Re: 4

Date: 2023-06-26 10:35 am (UTC)
danieldwilliam: (Default)
From: [personal profile] danieldwilliam

Hard cases make bad law.

The right forum for resolving what happens in these situations is for the New Zealand Parliament to pass some primary legislation.

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