Date: 2021-02-27 12:50 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] mountainkiss
One can always tell the DAG links before looking, just from the measured tone of the titles.

Date: 2021-02-28 08:49 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] mountainkiss

I once had a Facebook comment liked by him as he's a friend of a friend (about cars that the rich drive). Highlight of the last decade.

Date: 2021-02-28 08:58 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] mountainkiss

Understandably, one feels.

Secret baby

Date: 2021-02-27 01:29 pm (UTC)
From: [personal profile] anna_wing
People are not only weirder than I imagine, they are weirder than I can imagine.

Date: 2021-02-27 01:42 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] ninetydegrees
"Covid in Scotland: 40-49 next to be vaccinated (including me!)"

\o/

Date: 2021-02-27 04:20 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] threemeninaboat
I love the baby story.

Baby

Date: 2021-02-27 11:17 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] agoodwinsmith
I can see how that would happen without any extra skullduggery whatsoever.

Project will soon be over, no need to mention because it raises a pile of problematic options: are you mentioning it for pity, are you mentioning it for a gift, are you mentioning it as a power move - and so on. Unless the people are at least work friends, it will feel like a weird move for advantage. No mention, project done, no problem.

Project is now prolonged - how do you mention it without all the above questions coming into play again. Argh.

If the project was known to be longer-term, well, mentioning it would be more easy.

Think of it as surgery - you don't always tell everybody and their colleagues about these things. In remote work they may never know that you spent six weeks on crutches. Unless the project goes on and now they want you to meet the client in a social cautious in-person way during that six weeks.

I also don't think much of the solution. Anyone who is diffident enough to be concerned about the impression mentioning a baby in the first place would make is going to bungle the gaslight - and then they will really look deranged.
Edited (Badly placed punctuation and missing thought.) Date: 2021-02-27 11:22 pm (UTC)

Re: Baby

Date: 2021-02-28 08:08 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] simont
Anyone who is diffident enough to be concerned about the impression mentioning a baby in the first place would make is going to bungle the gaslight

I often think there ought to be a snappy name for that fallacy, because I see it so often. "Success fallacy", or something like that.

The fallacy I'm thinking of, in general, is where you judge whether you (or, as in this case, someone else) should attempt a given course of action by means of assessing the pros and cons of doing it – rather than assessing the pros and cons of trying it, including a realistic idea of the risk and consequences of each likely failure mode.

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