Sexual Eeling

Date: 2020-10-29 12:59 pm (UTC)
claudeb: A white cat in purple wizard robe and hat, carrying a staff with a pawprint symbol. (Default)
From: [personal profile] claudeb
The history of science if fascinating. Note the 11th century! female scientist who proposed a reasonable explanation for once, and of course everyone else ignored her. The more things change...
Edited (Fixed spelling.) Date: 2020-10-29 01:11 pm (UTC)

Date: 2020-11-04 07:44 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] jducoeur

If you want people to work together on a shared solution take away the option to have their own private one. (this is why I'm against private schools)

An alternate viewpoint to consider:

To make a long story short, my mother moved a dozen or so miles, to a smallish town, when I was about 12. My 7th grade time there was abysmally horrible. I'm sure it was a lovely school for most of the students, but it was intensely conformist and anti-intellectual -- I was a bullied outsider for pretty much the entire year, with absolutely no peer group whatsoever.

Around the middle of the year, I went to my father and said, quite frankly, "We are getting me into a private school next year, or I'm going to kill myself". Would I have done it? I'm honestly unsure, but my misery level was high enough that I might well have.

So having the outlet -- a means of escape from a majoritarian hell -- more or less saved my life. I won't argue that it's an ideal solution: fixing the underlying problem with the school would have been better. (And heaven knows, I show my privilege in the path we did take.) But one family, much less one tween boy, doesn't necessarily have the ability to move the needle when you're in a hostile cultural context...

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