Patriarchy, the working class

Date: 2020-07-13 08:16 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] anna_wing
I wonder how widespread this name-changing thing is? Cultures that don't use surnames presumably wouldn't have it ( patronymics, matronymics, completely individual names regardless of relationship). In Southeast Asia, ethnic Chinese women quite commonly don't take their husband's name or surname upon marriage. Miss XYZ who marries Mr ABC doesn't have to become Mrs ABC, or Mrs AYZ; she can equally well become Madam XYZ, where the change of title shows the change of status.

In the UK, are there still significant differences in inheritance and other property or access rights between children of married or unmarried parents?

I still remember a very interesting conversation that I had (in 1989, I was a student) with an elderly gentleman who described himself as working class, at 7 am in the queue for cheap day seats at the Royal Opera House. He was first in the queue, I was second. He had been doing this for decades, after hearing some opera on the radio and deciding that he liked it. That was yet another fascinating insight into the intersection of race, class and money in English society. To summarise: well-spoken young foreigners such as myself were perfectly fine as neighbours, Jamaican gangsters were horrible. I could not really disagree with that proposition.
Edited Date: 2020-07-13 09:23 am (UTC)

Re: Patriarchy

Date: 2020-07-13 09:27 am (UTC)
naath: (Default)
From: [personal profile] naath
It depends on how the child is registered IIRC.

Re: Patriarchy, the working class

Date: 2020-07-13 09:46 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] anna_wing
He was elderly, lived in Brixton, and was much disturbed by violence and drug use in his street, so I was certainly not about to challenge his, as they call it, 'lived experience'.

Plus ca change...the last time that I was in the UK, in early 2019, my taxi-driver from Heathrow regaled me all the way into town with tales of knife crime in London, blamed Theresa May for defunding the police, and complained that London was far more dangerous now than when he came from Pakistan in the 1970s...
Edited Date: 2020-07-13 09:48 am (UTC)

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