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Date: 2011-11-28 03:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pigwotflies.livejournal.com
Relieved to note the kid in question was copying from elsewhere and (I hope) therefore hasn't seen the film. The things my half-siblings in law, aged 9, 11 and 12, are allowed to watch quite frankly terrify me. Hoping there are still sensible parents out there who do follow ratings, at least as a first order approximation for age-appropriateness.

Date: 2011-11-29 01:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] undeadbydawn.livejournal.com
we have a simple rule. We watch a film first, and if it passes certain criteria the age rating is ignored.
Films like Alien and Insidious [which is Daughter's favourite film] are totally fine.
I will happily never let her know Human Centipede exists, though I have not seen it [and have no great interest in doing so]

currently on the 'should probably let her watch list is Season Of The Witch - which *suggests* that sexual violence may have occurred, but shows absolutely nothing.

Date: 2011-11-28 02:48 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] autopope.livejournal.com
The "please power down your electronics for [take-off|landing]" thing is nothing to do with interference; the real reason is that in event of an evacuation you do not want the cabin crew to have to forcibly separate businessmen from their laptops and kids from their DSi's in order to get them to stop blocking the emergency exits while the plane fills with smoke and people start dying.

The CAA and the FAA actually give this as the real reason for the ban; but they don't make a big point of it because everyone knows that they are a special snowflake who can be trusted to do the right thing. Whereas the "interference" story gives them a plausible excuse for a "no exceptions, turn it OFF" rule.

(Me, I don't bother to switch off. But I do put the ebook reader down and take off the headphones during the most dangerous periods of any flight. Because I don't want to die ...)
Edited Date: 2011-11-28 02:49 pm (UTC)

Date: 2011-11-28 03:32 pm (UTC)
ext_58972: Mad! (Default)
From: [identity profile] autopope.livejournal.com
People see magazines/newspapers as disposable.

Laptops, not so much.

Most people are lousy at making split-second priority trade-offs, and some will die to keep their laptop in preference to fleeing from the wreckage of a burning plane.

(At least, that's the theory AIUI.)

Date: 2011-11-28 05:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meaningrequired.livejournal.com
Perhaps if I were less engrossed in the story, then I would happily discard it.

*Alarm goes off, attendants tell people to evacuate, Julie's kindle is allowed on*
Julie: "Wait, I've just got to find out if he escapes!"

*Alarm goes off, attendants tell people to evacuate, Julie's kindle is off*
Julie: "Oh well, I'm not going to find out anyway, I might as well toss the Kindle away..."

Date: 2011-11-28 06:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] octopoid-horror.livejournal.com
I would enjoy flying a lot more were it not for the theatre around illegal immigrants or imaginary terrorists/electrical interference.

Date: 2011-11-29 01:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] undeadbydawn.livejournal.com
I will almost certainly be flying to Russia this winter.

my first proper journey as an adult. These matters are a total mystery to me.

Date: 2011-11-28 03:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] skington.livejournal.com
The unanimous reaction at work to that Google guy's "let's omit all HTML tags we possibly can" proposal is: fuck no!

Date: 2011-11-28 04:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] skington.livejournal.com
It has all the hallmarks of premature optimisation: it saves a few bytes (rather than a few K), which probably isn't the major source of your page loading slower than it could, and it does so by disrupting the mental model that most people who know a bit of HTML have got used to. That doesn't look like a good trade-off to me - people are used to expect a closing tag. (Not to mention that it demands more work than merely saying "OK, we don't need to close tags" - because we still need to close most tags.)

For that matter, ignoring for the moment the fact that the two images are inlined as Base64, that 404 page would probably have saved as many bytes by omitting unnecessary newlines and spaces.

I can vaguely see the point of omitting closing tags, or tags you don't even need at all, like head or body, in an HTML minifier. But telling people to actually write and think about code like this is just daft. (Especially when the web inspector in Safari/Chrome, or Firebug's equivalent in Firefox, puts all of the omitted tags back in.)

Date: 2011-11-28 06:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lpetrazickis.livejournal.com
Because:
1. It's important for new code to be consistent with existing code.
2. It's important for code to be readable by people who do not have the same level of knowledge as you.
3. It's a leaky abstraction. [/hr] and [/br] have surprising effects.
4. IMHO, it's useful for HTML to approximate well-formed XML as many tools may assume it is.

Date: 2011-11-28 03:30 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] zz
this.

Date: 2011-11-28 04:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] spacelem.livejournal.com
Okay, LJ just swallowed my post, so let's try again. I hated the article about the guy who didn't bother to look for his real dad.

My parents divorced when I was 2, and until I left for university, I lived with my mother and step father. I still see them frequently, and they've been there throughout my formative years. As for my biological father, I stayed with him maybe once every year or two, but apart from that he has had no influence on my life.

Except he has. I look like him, I sound like him, I act like him, and we have the same sense of humour. 3 months after he died of cancer, I was at my grandmother's funeral, and relatives who hadn't seen my since I was a baby commented on how similar we were. I got to see photos that I had never seen before, and we were the spitting image as children.

So, my dad may not have had any influence on my upbringing (although perhaps more than the guy in the article), but he's a very real part of who I am.

Date: 2011-11-29 01:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] undeadbydawn.livejournal.com
similar story.

I am told I look almost exactly like a man I don't know at all. I do feel something is missing from my life there, perhaps because I really didn't get on with my stepfather - who was rather abusive towards my sister.

I could have made moves to contact him over the last few years, but haven't, mostly because I'm not sure why I would.
My sister, who missed him massively and went to live with him for a year or so in her late teens, told me he's basically an asshole and not really worth the effort. Among other rather creepy things, she learned just enough Dutch to catch him telling a friend that she was his new girlfriend. Even as a joke, it made her basically not want to know him.

Date: 2011-11-28 06:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] khbrown.livejournal.com
Media consolidation is an old one - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ben_Bagdikian

Date: 2011-11-29 01:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] undeadbydawn.livejournal.com
the great failing of Conservatives - and I'm probably just massively abbreviating your link - is in thinking that hard work and decent pay is a good enough reward.

it totally fucking isn't.

most people are wage slaves. They go to work, do some shit for The Man, then try and find things to make it seem worthwhile during their time off. This is a /shite/ motivator. Especially when you find yourself working in a system designed by total idiots who've never actually had to do the tasks they're assigning to their staff.

it's a deep rooted irony that the stuff that really needs done tends to be underpaid and socially stigmatised. Being a cleaner, for example: a job that needs done, and done well, constantly. Retail: total daily grind unless you feverently believe in the products you're selling. Nursing is massively respected, but also politicised to the point of driving a huge percentage of the workforce to depression.
then there's the stuff that's just grossly underrespected like civil engineering - there's money in it, but also a bizarre battle against the wishes of people who have no understanding of the job they want done.

in short: it's a lack of understanding of industry and labour by people who have very little involvement with it.

Date: 2011-11-30 06:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] momentsmusicaux.livejournal.com
The whole system is backwards.

Work is currently a means for getting money in order to survive.
Whereas what it ought to be is a system for human civilization to collectively get stuff done.

Date: 2011-11-30 07:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] undeadbydawn.livejournal.com
exactly right.

this is why a lot of very bright people either end up in shit jobs, permanent academia or unemployed. There are disgustingly few jobs that feel worth doing, and don't involve criminally sleazy / incompetent middle-managers.

Date: 2011-11-29 09:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dalglir.livejournal.com
The fostering adoption article struck a chord with me. Years and years ago (possibly univ) I saw a banner ad for fostering services in the US. It said: "There's more to being a Dad than just being the father."

How true.
Edited Date: 2011-11-29 09:20 am (UTC)

Date: 2011-11-30 06:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] momentsmusicaux.livejournal.com
The trouble with bright kids... argh this is worth a whole LJ post of my own.

I suspect I may fuck up Caractacus in this respect. I just can't get my head round it. I can't say to her 'you worked really hard at making that lego giraffe', or 'at learning that song'.
Admittedly, as two years old, I'm not sure there is a concept of 'working really hard'. She just does stuff.
But there is a large part of me that really rails against 'working really hard' It says, 'fuck that. any idiot can work really hard. being *good* or *smart* or *talented* is better and deeper than that'.

Heh. :/

Date: 2011-11-30 09:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] momentsmusicaux.livejournal.com
Huh.
That does actually remind me of how some months ago I considered the question of whether C was born smart, ie had received some good genes from her parents who arguably are both smart in an intellectual way.

And I ended up concluding that it's mostly down to what her parents encourage and value rather than anything innate: we talk to her and interact with her a lot; we've been giving her books since she could hold her head up; I play musical instruments to (and with) her and so on.

Date: 2011-11-30 07:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] undeadbydawn.livejournal.com
to a child playing, hard work is a completely foreign concept.

when my daughter does something impressive, I'll tell her the thing she's done is exactly that. Impressive. I'll tell her I'm very proud of her for doing it and discovering a new talent, and encourage her to keep experimenting. I may explain to her how her new discovery can be useful elsewhere, or how other very clever people have done something similar.

her eyes light up at these moments, and she has a real passion to learn more. I have, at times, taken that too far and just overloaded her. Sometimes it's best just to give her access to more information, to resources, and leave it there.

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