This weeks profile D'Andy

[andrewducker]

This one is from colorgenics

You are seeking protection against anything which might seem to be exhausting you or tiring you out. So it would appear that you are seeking a life of security and physical ease, free from any problem or disturbance.

You are willing to try anything once. You "need to be needed" and what is perhaps more important .. you "need to need." You can only feel close to a person or persons when you feel you can trust them ... but this trust needs to be proven to you..

It is hard for you to accept that your needs and desires are misunderstood by almost everyone within your sphere of influence ... and there is no one to rely on. Your pent-up emotions and inherent egocentricity make you quick to take offence, but as matters stand you realise that you'll have to make the best of things as they are.

Unacceptable restrictions have been forced upon you and this is resulting in severe frustration and stress. You are looking for independence and consequently you shy away from any restriction and avoid obligations of anything which might prove hampering.You are being subjected to considerable pressure and want to escape from it so that you can obtain what you need, but unfortunately at this particular moment in time you lack the necessary strength of purpose to succeed in this.

You seem to be always on the defensive and that is because you have failed to establish yourself in a manner consistent with your own high opinion of yourself. You are trying to prove yourself with inadequate resources, and this has resulted in considerable stress. You are trying to escape from these excessive demands on your reserves by adopting a defensive attitude in which you refuse to be committed or to be involved in further unpleasantness.

Comments

[tisme.livejournal.com]

I find this very interesting. Some of it seems to be about your work situation and the fact that you hate your job and are scandalously underused. Some seems to be really very true and some makes me worried for the health of our relationship. Still, inherent egocentricity made me smile. A lot.