Responsibility
Nov. 25th, 2005 08:15 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
This is inspired by the comment here, where
ladysysiphus says "If you have consumed enough alcohol to impair your judgement, I believe you then have to take at least some responsibility for putting yourself in a position where something like this might happen."
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Date: 2005-11-25 08:23 am (UTC)However, in all cases, _totally_ responsible for making the decision to place themselves there.
I don't like the fact that I might get mugged for my various bits of tech - it's a horrible thing to happen to anyone, and it shouldn't be allowed. In addition, I'm not responsible for the choice of the muggers to mug me - they're responsible for their own actions.
Sadly, lacking complete ignorance of the fact that muggers _do_ exist in the backstreets of Glasgow, I'm totally responsible for any decision I make to walk down those alleys at 2am, waving an MP3 player about.
Those two responsibilities do not cancel each other out.
Everyone is responsible for the choices they make, and while the actions of others do affect what choices we can, and do make, we are still ultimately responsible for our own actions.
On the other hand, chiding me for walking down a back alley when I'm nursing a broken nose and a missing MP3 player is lacking in tact and understanding, if nothing else.
Overall Responsibility
Date: 2005-11-25 08:43 am (UTC)This aint maths, people - the Total Responsibility isn't "99% the muggers responsibilities + 1% the responsibility of the person walking down the backstreet" - there _is no_ total responsibility - there's two separate responsibilities that can't be added, subtracted or otherwise merged into one.
Re: Overall Responsibility
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Date: 2005-11-25 09:27 am (UTC)In the first two cases: you/she may be in an area with a poor reputation, but any assault occurs because of the evil intent of the mugger/rapist. It's their responsibility. Just because an area has a dodgy reputation it does not follow that entering it implies one is courting assault, any more than it follows that you are immune from assault or robbery in areas with a reputation for safety. The law doesn't take account of "no-go zones" -- if it did, then the law could not be applied consistently.
In the third case, you not only go into a bar you consider to be dodgy but you deliberately say something you understand to be inflammatory. Any assault is still the fault of the attacker -- but they might argue that you deliberately provoked them. If they can plausibly claim that they wouldn't have attacked you without such provocation, then the blame is shared to some extent.
In the case of the tiger, that's of necessity your responsibility. The tiger is a wild beast and is simply being true to its nature. No human being is exercising control over it. It exists outside the rule of law. When going outside the law, in the absence of any other authority it's your responsibility to look to your own safety.
On the building site ... it's a mixture. On the one hand, walking across a clearly marked building site is reckless: you've been warned by the signs, you shouldn't have done it. On the other hand, the builders have a responsibility -- under health and safety regulations -- not to drop loose objects like bricks.
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Date: 2005-11-25 09:47 am (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2005-11-25 07:50 pm (UTC)You're assuming that people have unrestricted freedom of motion -- and that's not always the case.
You're also conspicuously leaving out examples like "A woman goes over to her best friend's house for dinner. How responsible is she when he rapes her?" I don't know if you're leaving out those very common situations because you want to make a point about people going into situations they know are potentially dangerous as opposed to situations they have very little reason to think will prove harmful.
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Date: 2005-11-26 08:17 am (UTC)Including the tiger. :)
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Date: 2005-11-25 08:43 am (UTC)I've answered on the grounds that I think responsibility for violence lies with the perpetrator where they are conscious and decision-making. Tigers and bricks aren't so. But it does make me think... I would say all of these cases are about risk assessment and bad luck rather but have trouble matching this with "to blame" or "responsible" in a consistent way.
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Date: 2005-11-25 08:47 am (UTC)Which is why I deliberately put it in, as a mid point between human attackers and bricks randomly falling on my head.
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Date: 2005-11-25 09:39 am (UTC)And if you're so drunk you can't remember, but the mugger claims you enthusiastically pressed your MP3 player and mobile phone on him, should the mugger be done for theft or allowed to go free on the grounds that your default position is consent?
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Date: 2005-11-25 09:50 am (UTC)Oh, you may be interested to know that the CPS is demanding a report into the case that was dropped.
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Date: 2005-11-25 09:54 am (UTC)There is of course less room for reasonable doubt here than there would have been if Andy (or that drunk, scantily clad girl) had sex with him, because it's well-known that people often decide that they really want to have sex with people they don't really know, especially while drunk... whereas I've never heard of anyone suddenly deciding to give away their tech toys. Still, if the person who lost their gadgets is really so drunk they can't remember a thing about the encounter, I'd say there's room for reasonable doubt - you could at least argue the toss in court.
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Date: 2005-11-25 10:05 am (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2005-11-25 02:34 pm (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2005-11-25 09:44 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-11-25 09:48 am (UTC)I think, to an extent, the tiger analogy probably works quite well in this context, in that for a large swathe of humanity (including most politicians in power) the capacity to make moral choices is seriously impaired.
I would not, however much I believe that people should make the right moral choice send out my little girl of eight (for example) on dark streets because I *know* there are people who would take advantage of that, and I would take full responsibility for putting her in that position, should anything happen.
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Date: 2005-11-25 09:51 am (UTC)If the bad consequences require another human being to do something bad (ie to attack you in a bad area of town) then you may be deeply stupid to have put yourself in that position, but you are not to blame for their evil actions.
Tigers, as have been mentioned already, do not have a moral responsibility not to eat people, so in that case any responsibility is yours.
(Though this does not apply to any natives of the area whose choices may be limited to either going to gather firewood in the tiger-infested woods or not being able to cook and heat their house...)
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Date: 2005-11-25 10:15 am (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2005-11-25 01:11 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-11-25 01:50 pm (UTC)Police states where this sort of issue doesn't arise for the win!
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Date: 2005-11-25 01:59 pm (UTC)Not all of them, but again and again this is borne out. Watch the news.
If you are with friends, if you are with people you know in a safe place then maybe, just maybe, you can let your guard down and be safe and then, if something bad happens, you're not responsible. Because there was nothing you could have done.
But if you give people who you don't know an opportunity, if you get drunk and aren't in control, if you present yourself as a target, or if you even just give -other- people the option of making you a target, then you are at least in part responsible. Because you could take precautions to ensure bad things didn't happen to you? And why didn't you? Because you're stupid. Yes, there will always be things that you can't avoid. It's a terrible fact of life. That is bad, and sometimes you aren't responsible.
But if you happily get too drunk to stop things happening, or wander calmly through somewhere you -know- to be dangerous without a thought for your safety... then you're voluntarily giving up your safety.
When you drive your car, if you don't do up your seatbelt, you are making a choice to go flying through the window if you crash. You don't WANT to crash, but if you do.. you're choosing the painful option. When you KNOW there's a safer option.
You can blame society if you like, in that we have a weak and indulgent society that freely allows crime, but you can't blame everyone except yourself. The first lesson is not to be a target, is not to make yourself an object for someone else's hate or greed.
Vulnerability is a choice. There are things you can do to avoid it. If you do not do these things then you have made a choice. Ignoring the choice is sheer stupidity.
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Date: 2005-11-25 02:06 pm (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2005-11-25 02:28 pm (UTC)That said, are any of them guilty of any of the violence or acts? No. They are the innocent party, if clueless. But as George Carlin put it, "There's no such thing as an innocent. As a human being, when you're born until the day you die, you're just fucking guilty my friends. You're fucking GUILTY".
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Date: 2005-11-25 06:44 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2005-11-25 10:47 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-11-26 01:03 am (UTC)But then I was thinking, if someone tries to kill you, and you don't die, they aren't responsible for you not dying, yet if you had died, they would be responsible. So that means my previous thought doesn't necessarily hold either. It's enough to give me a headache. But I'm going to stop thinking about it, so that it won't. If I did think about it more, and if I got a headache, would you be responsible? No, I guess you wouldn't. You'd be partially the cause of it, but not responsible, since it was my own choice to continue thinking about it... Would I be responsible? Hmm. Nope, I am going to stop thinking about this. Yep.
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Date: 2005-11-28 11:27 am (UTC)"A woman walks, scantily clad, down backstreets in an area known to be unpleasant: has she forfeited her right not to be raped?
Anyone care to answer yes to that? Cause thats what your saying if you ascribe her "responsibility".
besides the idea of being responsible for rape is an oxymoron, if one was ABLE TO RESPOND it wouldnt be rape. Depressing to see that your poll produces the same proportion of stupidity as the original.
Re: 30 % stupid
Date: 2005-11-28 11:46 am (UTC)So I don't tend to have a problem discussing responsibility outside of the context of rights :->