Very cool, if true

Try reframing that as "at age 45 I'm still discovering things about male behavior" or "at age 45 I'm still discovering things about the patriarchy." Those things you've labeled as "about women" are primarily about male behavior, and about ways some women deal with some of the things men do—yes how women respond is important, but sexual harassment, unlike earthquakes or influenza, is a thing that people (most of them male) choose to do.