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Yeah; ignoring "I'm in hospital, can you visit" is a very high level of ignoring messages! I feel like there's some cultural differences I'm missing even before that. For that matter, the husband is clearly not doing the "marriage" thing, but I generally prefer a country defaulting to no-fault divorce; if she *feels* like the marriage has broken down it basically has whether you can prove it in court or not.
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I have a weird tension here. I feel like, people *are* under an obligation to test out their boundaries and (probably) discover that "I don't fancy people of X race" was just a prejudice they get over.

But if they really try and really can't, sometimes you just can't control your sexual attraction. And you need to not make a big noise about it and write angry thinkpieces about "my prejudices are a natural law for everyone", and not rub people's faces in the fact you don't fancy them. But also, not force yourself to date people who have no attraction towards.

But I'm not sure if that's a reasonable compromise. Particularly in race; sexual attraction is really weird, but "only attracted to people of my own race" doesn't seem to be a thing (more attracted maybe, and "can't be bothered dating ignorant majority makes sense, but not as a "my orientation is....") But I don't want to pre-judge which orientations actually exist and which don't.
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I agree; attraction is attraction...it's like saying gay men are misogynist simply because they don't find women sexually attractive.
Can we please leave people SOMETHING they won't be judged about?
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I think I agree with you.
But the article also mentions people saying something along the lines of "south-east Asian women are more submissive, so I like them better" -- and I do think that such statements are problematic.
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From: [personal profile] jack
That seems to be something that *is* very racist. (Even if there are cultural differences, you can avoid being essentialist about that.)

I think maybe the problem is, everyone should generally be a lot less racist than they are now, but when I read articles about that, I feel like they're telling me to take it to the logical conclusion, and obliterate any not-completely-egalitarian sexual orientation. But actually they're just being emphatic, not necessarily precise.
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That makes sense, although I'm always hesitant at people's complete omission of any possibility the government won't suddenly change the rules again to force everyone with a loan to pay more, given that's what the whole system seemed set up to do from the start. I mean, I hope they don't, and it seems likely the same logic of that article would apply in either case, but I expected them to say, "even if the government removed that cap, if there's a 9% repayment rate for life, it's better to pay for life that try to pay the loan off now" not "well, here's the current situation". I've read other articles talking about "oh my why on EARTH might people not want to take loans out when the repayment terms are so clearly specified and generous (but can be changed at any time)" and ground my teeth.
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The terms have already been changed retrospectively, to freeze the repayment threshold rather than indexing it to earnings as originally promised:
https://www.theguardian.com/money/2015/nov/25/student-loans-george-osborne-criticised-freezing-repayment-threshold

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From: [personal profile] jack
Having bikes where you don't need to find a vacant rack at the other end does sound very good. It's a shame it doesn't seem to be working :( I guess, paying remotely helps, since you can charge people if they just disappear with it, but not enough, judging by the "it's still on the system, but in my house" stuff?
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From: [personal profile] jack
Indeed, although I think the doctor is probably much worse off than that, in that he seems to usually have no legal status on earth at all (albeit one he can usually skirt with one-off hacks or plot-dodges).
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From: [personal profile] jack
I blocked that out. It sort of makes sense -- so many crises would make sense if everyone just listen to the doctor. But *surprise* no-one actually listened to him when it mattered. It got a very brief and mostly pointless joke or two, and a sort of ham-fisted LOOK HOW IMPORTANT THE DOCTOR IS moment and didn't do much else.

I've not watched beyond the following episode -- I'm going to ignore that bit, and hopefully the writers will too. I was fine with the weird compromise where important people are sometimes aware of the doctor, but he also often has difficulty inveigling his way into mundane situations, and I assume the show will naturally revert back to that.
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From: [personal profile] jack
Yes! I remembering hearing this from Sweden and it seemed really good. It's hard to eradicate gender stereotypes, but not constantly bombarding everyone with them all the time is a very good start!
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From: [personal profile] jack
Yeah, I'm not sure why I'm so ok with this, but it seems I am. I guess it's partly, there's such an overwhelming need. And partly, I don't feel companies are going to suffer at all by not being able to be rampantly sexist in passing.

A List Of Times Doctor Who Was Ruined Forever

Date: 2017-07-18 01:21 pm (UTC)
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Perhaps you might be amused to know that the first time I was informed that Star Wars had been ruined forever was when The Empire Strikes Back came out. Yes, really. I think the person was upset that Luke suffered.
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