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Date: 2012-01-23 01:20 pm (UTC)
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The 5 stupidest things <- this. I grew up in a poor as shit household and everything in the article is true.

I'm so far away from that childhood that I'd forgotten these things. But I left the article shaking slightly and with my stomach in a knot.

The introduction on going overboard on gift giving (#4) could be an entry all by itself - the bit about keeping bill problems out of earshot of kids:

"But what a lot of parents don't realize is that when they're openly worrying about bills within earshot of their children, the kids worry, too. When they hit a certain age, they start to make sacrifices on the family's behalf, and they feel guilt for the rare small luxuries they're allowed. "

Where I went to school, the first term of any musical instrument lessons were free. We had a strong school band. I picked up a loan trumpet, carefully cleaned it, cared for it and spent a weekend blasting out noise in my grandparent's back garden before starting lessons. In my first lesson, the teacher just asked to blow out whatever we could, just to see if we could. I blew out a 'high C' - some achievement for a novice apparently - and he was so impressed, he immediately sent me to see the school's music master to tell him. I was proud. I continued with my lessons with gusto.

When the free lessons ran out and I realised my parents would have to pay, I didn't even ask them. I attended the first lesson of the new term, handed the trumpet back and ran out before I burst into tears.

I'd forgotten about this until last Christmas when it came up in conversation with my dad and step mum. They were gutted. They thought I'd stopped because I hadn't enjoyed it.

Edited Date: 2012-01-23 01:43 pm (UTC)

Date: 2012-01-23 02:56 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] jack
:( What an excellent description.

Date: 2012-01-23 11:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bart-calendar.livejournal.com
If I ever encounter J.R.R. Martin I'm going to ask him "What the fuck were you thinking when you wrote the Bran chapters?"

Would that be considered a weird question?

Date: 2012-01-23 06:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] undeadbydawn.livejournal.com
GoT was absolutely not what I expected, and for at least half the TV series I wondered what all the fuss was about.

the last few episodes properly grabbed me. Had I been watching it week-to-week, I'd have given up after ep.2
I'm aware the books are probably better, but I now can't be bothered reading them. Which is a pity since I have 3.

Date: 2012-01-23 10:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bart-calendar.livejournal.com
Book 1 and Season 1 are as identical as possible for cross medium things. The series is a slow burn.

(Please don't burn my apartment andrew!)

Date: 2012-01-23 11:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gonzo21.livejournal.com
The thing that concerns me about this megaupload business is if they were so stupid as to have kept all of these emails discussing their illegal activities, what if they kept download records and detailed logs on all of their users.

Date: 2012-01-23 12:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gonzo21.livejournal.com
What's interesting though is how many people don't seem to consider copyright infringement or piracy to be illegal anymore.

Date: 2012-01-23 06:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gonzo21.livejournal.com
I think the powers that be are more likely to crack down on the internet and introduce a Chinese style system of control before that happens.

https://www.eff.org/issues/acta

Stuff like this continues to gain momentum. I do half suspect that our glorious leaders looked at the Arab Spring and crapped themselves thinking 'what if it happens here!' So now they're working on totally controlling the internet.

Date: 2012-01-24 12:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gonzo21.livejournal.com
I'd certainly never heard of it before. Lots about SOPA, nothing about ACTA.

Date: 2012-01-23 05:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] brixtonbrood.livejournal.com
There was a thread on Mumsnet the other day where someone asked "Am I being unreasonable to be unimpressed by a friend who was watching a download of Warhorse?" and I was really startled by the strong majority of people saying "Oh get over yourself everyone does it, film-making isn't really like proper work and Hollywood has far too much money anyway, if it was me I'd have asked her to pass it on"

Bearing in mind that this is a site where people who feed their child grapes (or even a packet of crisps which they intend to pay for) going round Tesco are roundly condemned as thieves, I thought it was eye-opening.

Date: 2012-01-23 05:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gonzo21.livejournal.com
Yeah, it's the end result I think of an industry that quite happily spent years ripping off their consumers, and eventually it's reached a place where consumers feel not the slightest moral twinge about ripping off the industry in return.

The psychology of it is fascinating though. I've even seen people post complete copies of movies with the tagline 'No copyright infringement intended'. Which.. I don't think those words mean what they think they mean.

Date: 2012-01-23 06:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] undeadbydawn.livejournal.com
most people haven't a bloody clue what Copyright actually is. Even those who believe they do are probably wrong.

the overwhelming consensus seems to be that since all the money goes to studio execs [who are universally assumed to be psychotic arseholes] and grossly overpaid lead actors, it really doesn't matter if you don't pay.
I rather suspect that if profits were more evenly shared among cast and crew, and that everybody knew this, there's be a far greater compulsion to buy. This in much the same way as people will happily pay a few quid for an independently produced download, but always pirate the summers blockbusters.

Date: 2012-01-23 07:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] danmilburn.livejournal.com
No but hang on though, the reason those lead actors are grossly overpaid is because people prefer to watch films with them in. They are in fact not grossly overpaid at all because the difference between, say, Mission Impossible 4 with Tom Cruise in the lead role, and without, would literally be hundreds of millions of dollars in box office. He is, alas, worth every penny.

If what you say was at all true there'd be a healthy market for independent cinema in this country, which there isn't.

I don't really care if people pirate films (for me, if a film's worth watching, it's worth watching in at least DVD quality and preferably in a cinema) but I wish people would stop coming up with lame justifications for doing it.

Date: 2012-01-24 12:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gonzo21.livejournal.com
Plus the summer blockbusters have been of such terribly poor quality in the last... 5 or 10 years.

Date: 2012-01-23 06:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] octopoid-horror.livejournal.com
Is is true that, for takedown notices such as were involved in the Megaupload case, there's no need for the rights-holder to prove that they are - they can just say what they want taken down, and it has to get done?

I saw something suggesting that was the case (either in actuality, or in practical terms what companies had to do otherwise face escalating court costs by trying to get confirmation/buy time) but was unsure.

I ceratainly consider piracy it to be illegal. It's against the law, after all. I wouldn't say the illegality of it concerns me, though. It's also not enforced, as far as I'm aware. -Uploading- copyright infringing material is something that they enforce as an illegal act.

On the other hand, since as a consumer I'm treated like a criminal regardless, I have no problem with acting like one. If a company will refuse to let me refund genuinely mislabelled MP3s, or a CD or DVD where I opened the case has been opened because the implication is that I will have pirated it even when I actually simply don't want the product, then you're damn right I'm not going to waste my money buying things that might turn out to suck or not be right. I'll spend my money on things that I know are good, and download things to see if they are.

The only computer games that I've pirated in the last few years have been ones that are impossible to get unless you want to pay vastly inflated amounts to get them second hand, and may or may not actually work on modern systems. Had they been available for purchase on something like Steam or GOG, I would have bought them there.

Date: 2012-01-24 12:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gonzo21.livejournal.com
That's the thing isn't it. I'd lost count of how many CDs I bought, back in the day, where the singles I'd heard would be really good, and the rest would be terrible, ghastly filler garbage. And I just felt ripped off. As a consumer I want to pay for the things I want, not to have substandard crap foisted off on me.

Likewise with tv shows, I've a lot of downloaded tv shows I've gone on to bought the DVD boxed sets off because I really liked them. Or indeed DVD boxed sets I've bought, and then downloaded off the internet so that I could put them all on a hard drive for easier access.

Date: 2012-01-23 06:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] undeadbydawn.livejournal.com
while I am aware this is entirely besides the point:

MegaUpload is [was] an unbelievably shit service. Utterly manky website, obstructive UI and painfully slow if you weren't willing to pay. Which I was not.

Date: 2012-01-24 12:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gonzo21.livejournal.com
You see, I always did rather well with the free megaupload. Fastest download speeds of anything I'd used, and it worked well with DownThemAll, the firefox download manager add-on.

Date: 2012-01-23 06:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anton-p-nym.livejournal.com
I've been doing some casual reading around about the arrest, and everything I've read so far makes me think that Kim "Dotcom" was a blatent sociopath. The multiple high-end cars with grandiose custom license plates, the ostentatious wealth, the clear disdain for others, the dive to a "panic room" to avoid the police; heck, Kotaku even found that he was notorious back in the Quake days as a bot-herder who would ban from his server anyone who beat him.

I'm trying to prevent that from colouring my perception of the arrest, but it's hard.

-- Steve isn't surprised that the guy kept his emails and server records; wankers like that never expect to get caught, so they don't take precautions.

Date: 2012-01-24 12:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gonzo21.livejournal.com
Yeah, I have to agree, what I've read about the guy so far makes me think, y'know, fair enough. I hope he gets jail time.

Date: 2012-01-23 01:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] artkouros.livejournal.com
Now I'm suddenly interested in clitorises.

Date: 2012-01-23 03:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] channelpenguin.livejournal.com
I find it all really fascinating. And a briliantly elegant shape - at least in the diagram and MRI. Deserves to be a logo on a T-Shirt!

Date: 2012-01-23 06:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] undeadbydawn.livejournal.com
clitorises are excellent. and it's surprising how many women are surprised when men know where they are.

I had thought for rather a while that far too many men were simply 'doing it wrong' or just not terribly interested. It never occurred to me that .. well... people just didn't know

there is also, incidentally, a male clitoris.

Date: 2012-01-23 07:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] channelpenguin.livejournal.com
really? well I never ;-)

Date: 2012-01-23 02:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cartesiandaemon.livejournal.com
"The BBC covers polyamory"

Huh. That was a surprisingly competent look.

"The 5 Stupidest Habits You Develop Growing Up Poor"

Oh, excellent description.

"Is teaching women to code a feminist act? And does it matter?"

I thought some of what she raised was interesting, although I agree (like every newspaper article ever) that they couldn't say "I'm interested in what goes into X" without tacking on a little bit of "Everyone says X is evil, but actually its awesome" :)

Date: 2012-01-23 06:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] octopoid-horror.livejournal.com
So British children are fussy eating brats?

Didn't need an article to tell me that!

Also, I am playing as a female lizard in Skyrim but am grumpy that though the skin textures and the head shape is different, the body shape is still the same as for all the other races so my lizard has mammalian characteristics :-(

Date: 2012-01-23 09:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] alextfish.livejournal.com
Ha, well. NonMammalMammaries are a whole other rant unto themselves...

Date: 2012-01-25 12:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] momentsmusicaux.livejournal.com
Hmm... so to gruaniad articles in one day based on a book that I'm sure is largely generalization and conjecture.

There was the 'French women don't get fat' book or thingy a few years ago, and that's clearly a total lie. It maybe applies in the posher bits of Paris, but head out to the burbs and take a walk round a supermarket and they look much the same as here. Tracksuits too.

That said, yes, as far as I know, the French education system is rigid and stifling. But on the other hand, they don't have school uniform, which I consider stifling in a different way. And I'm not sure which form I would prefer.

Date: 2012-01-25 01:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] momentsmusicaux.livejournal.com
Yes, a few. Gillespies round the corner for one.

I don't see what uniform is for. All the arguments I've heard for it are bogus.

Does it set a level playing field? No, there are countless other ways in which kids can exhibit, demonstrate, or even flaunt their parents' status.
Does it create a feeling of social cohesion? Perhaps, but if so it's a cheap hack. You create a feeling of community by, like, creating a community.
Does it simplify things for parents? No, because you have more clothes to buy and you have effectively two parallel wardrobes for your child to keep track of.

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