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Date: 2010-11-23 12:38 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-11-23 01:03 pm (UTC)You know, I didn't know anything about Kate Middleton either. And I agree popular newspapers obsessing over her choice of clothes is awful. But one thing I do know is that -- so long as it's marginally decent -- she's entitled to wear whatever she likes and doesn't need a condescending tongue-in-cheek justification in order to do so.
Have the newspapers not fucking read Cinderella? Would it be ok with them if William married someone working class, or someone in the nobility, but not someone middle class? Who the fucking hell did they think he was going to marry?
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Date: 2010-11-23 01:08 pm (UTC)I agree with the scathing rebuttal of people who hate the though of people being gay-attracted to them (although I agree more with its vehemence than its accuracy).
But to be fair to this anonymous questioner, they might equally well have meant "what if people of the correct gender don't hit on me because they think I'm gay" not "what if people gay–hit-on-me?" Which is still wrong to think, but might be handed by a simple "no" or "it doesn't matter", rather than an evisceration.
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Date: 2010-11-23 01:14 pm (UTC)But in retrospect, I should have known the Daily Mail was being obnoxious about SOMETHING in it.
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Date: 2010-11-23 02:00 pm (UTC)Meh. That's because they've photoshopped the Herge characters of existing covers.
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Date: 2010-11-23 02:15 pm (UTC)Was expecting original drawings of Tintin!
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Date: 2010-11-23 02:20 pm (UTC)Venemous, belittling attacks aren't going to win over anyone's point of view. A little bit of understanding that some people don't have a choice as to which background they're bought up in, nor the awry social conditioning they might have gone thorugh, might offer a better start for changing people's points of view. It makes me look down on the journalist far more than the misguided question writer. I think asking stupid questions is a very valid route to knowledge (though maybe he could have Googled it first).
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Date: 2010-11-23 02:23 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-11-23 03:02 pm (UTC)I don't doubt there is likely a correlation between people who worry about being mistaken for being gay and people who are adverse to the gay lifestyle, but it's not a 1:1 mapping. For instance I occasionally worry about being mistaken for being gay, simply because I have been in the past and I've gotten myself into some socially tricky situations where I feel guilty afterwards in case I led anyone on. It doesn't mean I'm homophobic.
The fact he correlates pink clothing with being gay is naive on his part, but then I wouldn't even say that worry is completely without merit. There being (in my personal experience) something of a larger percentage of gay men that wear pink, than non-gay men (though I think this trend has become less clear cut since the advent of metrosexual fashion, but maybe he didn't get the memo).
Of course he might actually be a massive homophobe. I can't say for certain. I just don't assume he is.
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Date: 2010-11-23 03:07 pm (UTC)I'm not saying he's hugely bigoted, out there at night bashing gay heads.
But he's clearly wanting to avoid being mistaken for part of a group, to the point where he's emailing newspapers about if for advice on how to manage that. That indicates, to me, that he's got issues about it.
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Date: 2010-11-23 03:31 pm (UTC)I don't know where the person who asked that question falls compared to those two categories. Whether it makes them uncomfortable ("would my friends think I'm gay and act differnlty towards me?") or whether they are against it. Would you differentiate the two / would you differentiate differently?
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Date: 2010-11-23 03:33 pm (UTC)And I agree that the article was over the top - but I thought that as (a) it was humour and (b) it was anonymous I was fine with that. If it had had the name of the person who wrote in on it I'd have felt it was unfair to an actual person.
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