I need to know when it's okay to tell your partner you love them

Poll #34358

Open to: Registered Users, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 22

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What's the soonest you can tell a new partner you love them?

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First date
1 (5.0%)

First few days
1 (5.0%)

First week
1 (5.0%)

First two weeks
2 (10.0%)

First month
2 (10.0%)

First two months
1 (5.0%)

First six months
2 (10.0%)

First year
2 (10.0%)

Longer than a year
0 (0.0%)

THEY MUST NEVER KNOW
1 (5.0%)

I don't do "Love"
1 (5.0%)

SEWIWEIC
6 (30.0%)

What's the longest you'd wait for a partner to declare love before giving up on them?

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First date
0 (0.0%)

First few days
0 (0.0%)

First week
0 (0.0%)

First two weeks
0 (0.0%)

First month
0 (0.0%)

First two months
3 (14.3%)

First six months
2 (9.5%)

First year
2 (9.5%)

Longer than a year
2 (9.5%)

I WILL WAIT FOREVER
3 (14.3%)

I don't do "Love"
1 (4.8%)

SEWIWEIC
8 (38.1%)

Triggered by a couple of things recently where people were shocked that people would tell them that they were in love within the first few months.

And my general view is that if you aren't incredibly excited to spend loads of time with me and wander around holding hands while grinning a lot within the first few weeks of dating then we are probably not compatible.

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