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andrewducker ([personal profile] andrewducker) wrote2021-07-09 12:00 pm
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[personal profile] cmcmck 2021-07-09 01:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I was agreeing with Andrew's comment that lots of them were terrible, because from people I knew at the time who had similar experiences to mine, lots of them were.

I suspect that the example was the lucky exception and I find myself wondering if 'male' might have been the thing- more acceptable in those circles.

That said, I knew trans guys who had equally awful experiences.