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andrewducker ([personal profile] andrewducker) wrote2019-03-12 01:15 pm

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[personal profile] wildeabandon 2019-03-12 04:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd be a lot more likely to be okay with it. There are some circumstances where I'd still frown on it (e.g. the cheated on spouse was abusive, and the cheater felt unsafe leaving), but in general I don't think cheating is something about which one has a duty to respect privacy.
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[personal profile] wildeabandon 2019-03-12 04:41 pm (UTC)(link)
That's true. But I think there's something to be said for sticking to basic norms of decency even when people are treating you badly.

I don't entirely endorse this suggestion, but in that position I might be quite tempted to point out that if he wanted me to keep his secret he might not want to make my life with his daughter difficult.