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[personal profile] miss_s_b 2014-02-11 09:31 am (UTC)(link)
That "more equal marriage" thing has made me go asplodey.
Clearly the issue is with "this is my job and this is yours and if you don't do it I will shout at you" models - nobody feels sexy when there is conflict, and there is always conflict over chores in those models.
Meanwhile, chores done TOGETHER can totally lead to sex, even mind-numbingly boring ones (a recent example from my life - the other day a partner and I were dividing a council ward up into leaflet delivery routes and that led to incredibly hot sex)