My mother is a lovely person to everyone else but very emotionally abusive to me and my brother. I will never friend her on facebook again because she'd assume everything I posted was a dig at her and wouldn't understand half of what I posted about mental health issues. Also there's weirdness between her and my Dad's side of the family and I'm friends with many of my cousins. I did friend her once but restricted what she could see as I've done with other family members. She gained access to my profile through an ex-mutual friend and gave me hell for hiding stuff from her. It's so much simpler to just not add her. And now I have to block my aunt (mum's sister-in-law) who's giving me grief for grieving for my best friend and not helping my Mum move house. I offered to help but only if my carer (my boyfriend) could come with me as my anxiety issues mean I get frequent panic attacks. They do get on reasonably well and in that situation you'd think an extra pair of hands would be welcome. Nope. I was to go on my own or not at all. Unfortunately for her I chose my sanity over her needs. She's still not happy.
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