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[personal profile] cmcmck 2025-05-24 11:03 am (UTC)(link)
1. 'They' want to tell me I'm a man then they want to police my body as a woman.

It's called having you coming and going.
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[personal profile] conuly 2025-05-24 11:59 am (UTC)(link)
Hm. I suppose some cocaine might make it easier to deal with our dystopian reality.
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[personal profile] rmc28 2025-05-24 01:39 pm (UTC)(link)

Or at least care less about it

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[personal profile] nancylebov 2025-05-24 02:05 pm (UTC)(link)
4. I wonder what they used for a prompt.
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[personal profile] greenwoodside 2025-05-24 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
1. That reminds me that about 6 years ago, I went into a train station (women's) toilets at about 9pm after having been visiting my boyfriend who'd just lost his father. Anyway, I was washing my hands, when a male station guard appeared at the door and told me that I was in the wrong bathroom. I had the impression that someone had reported me.

I defaulted to a sort of hyper English Sergeant Wilson mode. 'Oh, I'm awfully sorry,' *earnest stare* 'but you see I am a woman. I could take my top off if that would help?'

Anyway, he turned red and muttered apologies and almost ran away. It was humiliating at the time. I often go for the gender neuter or disabled toilets these days to avoid anything similar. Or inadvertently terrifying any short femme women in the area, I guess.

OTOH, I did successfully destroy someone with politeness, so in retrospect, that seems like a small victory.

Bugger the toilet police.

2. GRRM seems to have completely lost interest in finishing his book series.
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[personal profile] cmcmck 2025-05-25 09:01 am (UTC)(link)
Sadly it seems this lunacy could end up happening here too.

What is bonkers is that so much of this is based on 'what everyone knows' that trans women are all large and tall with deep voices.

I was born with an intersex condition and am small and slight and my voice never 'broke' so no one notices me because I fit the preconceptions of how a woman is 'supposed' to look and a lot of this is body policing for ALL women both cis and trans!

Edited 2025-05-25 09:02 (UTC)
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[personal profile] greenwoodside 2025-05-25 09:26 am (UTC)(link)
It's mad, and it's getting madder :(
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[personal profile] zz 2025-05-25 05:35 pm (UTC)(link)
...and in typical patriarchy fashion, what women want has been made illegal