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andrewducker ([personal profile] andrewducker) wrote2003-10-06 07:26 am

Quote of the Day

"If I gave up every friendship that ever pissed me off, I'd be the loneliest fucking person in the world. And so would you."

[identity profile] laserboy.livejournal.com 2003-10-05 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Very true. Given the amount of times that Neil (Rae) and I lose it and argue you'd think we were mortal enemies, but he's absolutely one of my best friends.

[identity profile] ekatarina.livejournal.com 2003-10-06 10:44 am (UTC)(link)
Some of closest friends are the people to whom I have said "You have soooo pissed me off." It's because they are such close friends that I *can* say that, and that in fact I *must* say that. It keeps us honest, communicating, and much better friends.

Many friendships can't handle that, and that is fine. Not every friendship needs that. The closest ones *require* it.

Ekatarina

[identity profile] wordofblake.livejournal.com 2003-10-06 10:53 am (UTC)(link)
I agree, pissed off isnt enough to end a friendship.

[identity profile] allorin.livejournal.com 2003-10-06 11:24 am (UTC)(link)
Stop pissing me off.... ;+)

[identity profile] rainstorm.livejournal.com 2003-10-06 03:01 pm (UTC)(link)
gotta agree.

that's hy bitching can be useful, too. if you go "argh,t his person has done thisa dn it's really annoying!" it doesn't meanyou hate them, you just have to let off steam.

which makes me sound mean and nasty, but tbh, i am.