Interesting Links for 10-07-2024

[andrewducker]

1. What's the state of housing in the UK (spoilers: terrible)

(tags:uk housing )

2. More than half of anti-abortion MPs lose seats in election

(tags:abortion uk politics )

3. Vatican to trans people - please resist the urge to become God

(tags:catholicism transgender god )

4. Scotland's 2024 General Election in numbers

(tags:Scotland election statistics )

5. This is the best write-up I've seen of the Neil Gaiman assault allegations. The whole thing sounds like a mess.

(tags:neilgaiman assault )

6. New weight-loss and diabetes drugs linked to lower risk of 10 cancers (if you have diabetes)

(tags:diabetes cancer medicine )

7. Iain (M) Banks: Two Authors, One Man (An exhibition at the University of Stirling)

(tags:IainBanks writing )

8. UK's sugar tax led to a nearly 50 per cent reduction in children's added sugar intake from sodas and other soft drinks

(tags:sugar children tax )

9. Evolution explained by Rage Against The Machine

(tags:music evolution funny viaMyBrotherMike )

Comments

[gingicat]

I've had "well, I thought I was consenting but in retrospect I was pressured" situation once or twice, including a months-long fwb situation. If I didn't know, how did the guy?

That said, there's a reason I tell everyone I know "if you're not sure, say no and leave. If the no is not respected and you can't leave, it's not consensual."

[andrewducker]

Agreed on both counts.

And part of the problem is that people *are* talkable in to things. That people play hard to get.

And that people push harder than they should, in the hope that the other person is just playing hard to get.

So people who would never *physically* stop someone leaving end up going much further than they should have.

[calimac]

And that people push harder than they should, in the hope that the other person is just playing hard to get.

"As I must, therefore, conclude that you are not serious in your rejection of me, I shall choose to attribute it to your wish of increasing my love by suspense, according to the usual practice of elegant females." - Mr. Collins

[gingicat]

Yup.