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4. Not Demonizing Men!

[personal profile] snippy 2023-08-04 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
That mother needs to deal with her issues because she cannot be a good mother to her children if she is demonizing one of their parents, and a lot of other people. I managed to raise two sons without demonizing men by talking about the personal responsibility people have for their bad choices and bad actions - it's very gender essentialist to blame all men for the patriarchy, even if men have benefited from it. They've also been damaged by it!