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andrewducker ([personal profile] andrewducker) wrote2018-05-08 12:24 pm

We have a daughter. These are some photos of her

This is Sophia.

Here she is on the bed where Jane spent 17 hours in labour:


Here she is being weighed. She is smaller than we expected from the scans - just under average weight rather than being at the top of the normal range. This is all my fault for having a huge head. Jane regrets not checking my hat size before embarking on a relationship with me:


Also, you may have noticed how hairy she is. Jane was also born looking like this. Although apparently even moreso, with her hair in a quiff and (from her own description) looking like a good luck troll.

Here she is with her mum:


We got out after only a couple of days, and were able to lounge around the flat:


I got to practice winding her while brushing my teeth and surfing the internet:


Sadly, she came down with jaundice, and we had to go back in again so she could have all of her yellow replaced with blue:


But while we were in the NICU waiting room we finally managed to get a photo of the three of us together. Sorry about the thumb!


And now we get to spend time relaxing at home together with Jim:


Jim is generally quite relaxed about her, and will observe from a couple of feet away. When she gets noisy he retreats to his sleeping spot under a radiator at the other end of the flat:


The crib is awesome, btw - it straps onto the side of the bed and the side comes down, so Jane can sleep with her arm in there holding hands with Sophia if she's being a bit grizzly.

Jane has been practicing her swaddling skills:


The midwife has weighed her:


And we've been out for a couple of walks:




The sling came in the baby box, and has been fantastic. Takes about a minute to put on, is very comfortable and adjustable, and can be used in different ways.

Yesterday we even made it out to a cafe for lunch!


You can expect more of these to come :-)
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[personal profile] reverancepavane 2018-05-08 11:37 am (UTC)(link)
Commiserations! [On your upcoming lack of sleep.]

Welcome to the world Sophia. Walk it in wisdom.
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[personal profile] misbegotten 2018-05-08 11:58 am (UTC)(link)
Congrats! What a beautiful baby.
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[personal profile] nancylebov 2018-05-08 12:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Congratulations!
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[personal profile] annie_r 2018-05-08 12:15 pm (UTC)(link)
congrats! You all look so happy!
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[personal profile] doug 2018-05-08 12:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Hooray! Yay babies!

I love baby photos and baby news and all that stuff. All the very best to all three of you. And Jim. Although he looks like he can mostly take care of himself. :)

Can't remember if I gave you my top tip for prospective and new parents, which is to brace yourself for a deluge of unsolicited parenting advice. And I certainly found it harder to just smile and nod at the stuff I disagreed with once I had an actual child rather than a prospective one. Best of luck with that.

One other tip I'd give myself retrospectively is to bear in mind that it'll generally get harder to take them places before it gets easier again (and later much easier). Everyone will tell you it all gets easier over time, which it does in general for many people (which is terrible gaming UX) but once they can move independently the requirement for constant surveillance shoots up before it slowly sinks down over many years.

Hooray! Yay Sophia!

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[personal profile] liv 2018-05-08 12:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Welcome, Sophia. And congratulations to you and Jane on your external tiny human. Thanks for the baby pictures, too. (She looks like she's dancing while being weighed, which melted my usual indifference to babies a bit.)
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[personal profile] danieldwilliam 2018-05-08 12:34 pm (UTC)(link)
That's lovely to see.
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[personal profile] cmcmck 2018-05-08 12:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you so much for sharing these with us. :o)

Seventeen hours? That's a long one!
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[personal profile] miss_s_b 2018-05-08 01:02 pm (UTC)(link)
* is broody now *

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[personal profile] maia 2018-05-08 01:07 pm (UTC)(link)
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Welcome to the World, Sophia!!!!

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[personal profile] ironymaiden 2018-05-08 01:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Glad to see that all is well. Thanks for sharing.
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[personal profile] azdak 2018-05-08 01:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you for those beautiful pictures!
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[personal profile] davidcook 2018-05-08 01:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Congratulations ! Welcome to a whole exciting new world (both Sophia, and you two :) ) !

[personal profile] hutchingsmusic 2018-05-08 01:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Yayyyy! Happy to give baby advice if you want, but it looks like you have everything you need for now.
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[personal profile] sixbeforelunch 2018-05-08 02:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Congratulations! She's lovely. :)
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[personal profile] sravakavarn 2018-05-08 03:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Congratulations. Also the cat guarding the crib is kind of adorable.
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[personal profile] rmc28 2018-05-08 03:59 pm (UTC)(link)
BABY BABY BABY BABY

Feel free to put AS MANY PHOTOS of the baby as you like on Dreamwidth :-)
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[personal profile] strange_complex 2018-05-08 04:04 pm (UTC)(link)
You made a tiny human! I'm glad she is doing OK so far (apart from the jaundice), and amused that her crib is even called Jane. We will all look forward to lots more pictures as she grows. :-)
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[personal profile] movingfinger 2018-05-08 04:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Hmmm, shouldn't have left that photo of the stork delivery packaging in with the rest of them! "Midwife" ha, I bet that's the postie.

I wish all of you many happy adventures together!
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[personal profile] i_kender 2018-05-08 04:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Huzzah! Congrats on your squishy human monkey baby. There are many like it, but this one is all yours! Felicity to all the family.
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[personal profile] agoodwinsmith 2018-05-08 06:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Congratulations on achieving family. :)

I hadn't seen pictures of Jane before, and I think the two of you are a perfectly matched set. Your Sophia is lovely, and I hope she is the first of at least one more (as an only child, I authoritatively say: boo-hiss to only-child-dom). *Excellent* work, you two.
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[personal profile] buddleia 2018-05-08 06:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Welcome to the world li’l bab! And congratulations, what lovely news.
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[personal profile] gingicat 2018-05-08 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Baby! Hi baby!

(So I wish I'd known about Think!Kids Collaborative Problem Solving before my kids had developed the idea that It's All Mom's Fault when actually Some Things Are Mom's Fault. You're welcome.)
Edited 2018-05-08 20:41 (UTC)
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[personal profile] conuly 2018-05-08 08:46 pm (UTC)(link)
What a lovely baby!
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[personal profile] boxofdelights 2018-05-09 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
Eee congratulations! So tiny!

When you said "winding" I was looking for a crank-handle.

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