[identity profile] marrog.livejournal.com 2010-05-26 01:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Also, I didn't think I'd need to divide it out given my long explanation, but to clarify...

You and your friends didn't read the situation as uncomfortable.
I say that that tells me something about you, your friends, and your world view.

You persist in saying that as he didn't say "I'm uncomfortable" that meant he wasn't uncomfortable. You persist in saying that he wouldn't have continued to be friends with her if she'd made him feel uncomfortable.

This tells me something about your understanding of sexual politics.