[identity profile] wildeabandon.livejournal.com 2010-05-25 03:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not sure about hand and groin, but I'd be at least as upset by an unwanted hug as an unwanted grab at my genitals.

[identity profile] ashfae.livejournal.com 2010-05-25 03:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Yep, just so. I know lots of people to whom that applies. And since I usually welcome hugs, it's an effort for me to remember to get permission first. But the onus is still on me to get permission, not them to put up with me hugging them.