[identity profile] cartesiandaemon.livejournal.com 2010-01-05 12:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Though I'm not convinced that an explanation for "normal people" should include the terms "absolute difference" and "minimum" :)

My explanation would be similar, and for mathematicians definitely use the 0'th cousins terminology, but to try to be clearer, be something like:

* If Joe and Sally are siblings, their children are first cousins
* if Joe and Sally are n'th cousins, their children are n+1'th cousins
* if Joe the First and Sally are n'th cousins, Joe The N+1 and Sally are first cousins N times removed.

I used to find it very confusing before anyone explained it to me, which took a long time, but it didn't seem especially complicated once someone HAD explained it.
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[personal profile] simont 2010-01-05 12:43 pm (UTC)(link)
For me, the biggest problem isn't understanding it; it's remembering, for Nth cousins M times removed, which of M and N represents which parameter.

(It therefore seemed particularly silly to me that the explicitly worked example on that page was one in which M=N.)

[identity profile] cartesiandaemon.livejournal.com 2010-01-05 12:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah, I see. I don't know, I always remember that "first cousins" is the commonest and synonymous with normal cousins, and from there you can see which is which.

[identity profile] momentsmusicaux.livejournal.com 2010-01-05 12:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Even that one was bit convoluted...