The first shattering of naivete I had was when my friend gave a coworker (well same building, not direct coworker) a good bye hug in a bar and he groped her. I just... My brain couldn't comprehend, and I've got a ... well... "Scottish temper" cuz of my heritage (I can blame it on that, no?)

Anyways, to prevent something bad from happening I stormed out, hoping she'd charge after me.

When we talked about it afterwards, she said "This happens all the time to women" and it blew my mind.