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andrewducker ([personal profile] andrewducker) wrote2011-11-25 11:00 am

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[identity profile] danieldwilliam.livejournal.com 2011-11-25 12:08 pm (UTC)(link)
I broadly agree with your sentiment.

I remember discussing this forcefully with My Lovely Wife in advance of the birth of our first son. I also remember my mum (a doctor) threatening to bully MLW into going to the hospital. After a 36 labour resulted in an unplanned C-section all of us were glad we’d been in hospital. Saying that being able to nip off to my own spare bed for a kip would have helped me function a lot better.

However, doesn’t the research indicate that home births are just as safe as hospital births for second births with parent-child combinations that are low risk?

[identity profile] dalglir.livejournal.com 2011-11-25 12:32 pm (UTC)(link)
As above: risk of complication was found to be equal between birth settings for second child by the study does not appear to cover the risk of how complications are dealt with in those birth settings, if they occur.

I would still choose to be already in the place where the specialist teams and equipment are, rather than be hanging about for an ambulance with wife in agony/baby dying.

[identity profile] danieldwilliam.livejournal.com 2011-11-25 12:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah - I see.

I guess you pays your money and you takes your choice on whether the additional risk of the ambulance ride and consequently anxiety if thing go wrong are worth being at home at all that loveliness are worth it to you.

Personally, I'm with you on. Take me to the place where the surgeons hang out.

Next time tho' I'm taking my own blow up bed and blanket.

[identity profile] dalglir.livejournal.com 2011-11-25 12:51 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm with you there. No beds for spouses in our local hospital. blanket is a good idea :)

[identity profile] danieldwilliam.livejournal.com 2011-11-25 12:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Also chocolate. I never under estimate the moral boosting power of chocolate.

Frustratingly I noticed the "guest bedrooms" near the wards in our maternity hospital on the way out with my four day old son.

I definately felt that having a few hours sleep was really beneficial during the birth process. MLW was very tired, (close to exhausted) and full of a cocktail of several pain killers and other chemicals and my ability to translate what the doctor was saying in English into stoned, tired, anxious, pained MLW-ees was useful. I think had I had four hours proper sleep lying down with a blanket I'd have been able to do a better job.

[identity profile] naath.livejournal.com 2011-11-25 04:20 pm (UTC)(link)
There's a strong chance you would have to hang about by a hospital bed with wife in agony/baby dying - waiting for the right doctor to be found, the OR to be prepared, the team to scrub up, etc etc. There is a usually a delay between requesting even the most emergency of emergency procedures (especially ones involving complicated kit/specific people; which is what we are talking about because midwives have the easy kit with them and lots of training) and actually receiving the procedure.

How that delay compares to the time spent waiting for / in an ambulance depends of course on where exactly you live.