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andrewducker ([personal profile] andrewducker) wrote2011-11-22 11:00 am

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[identity profile] philmophlegm.livejournal.com 2011-11-22 01:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm going to be in the minority on this one, and some may think I'm old-fashioned, but bear with me...


I think the guy complaining about the dress code for dinner in a luxury hotel is completely unreasonable and is missing the point.

This is a luxury hotel. The dress code is simply asking him to show a bit of respect to his fellow diners. I'd say it seems like a pretty relaxed dress code anyway - it doesn't require a tie or a jacket or even socks. What it does do is prevent slobs from getting our of the pool and going to dinner in shorts or jeans, flip-flops and no shirt like you might see in some two-star beach hotel in Benidorm.

Dressing properly is nothing to do with obeying pointless rules and everything to do with basic politeness.

[identity profile] alitheapipkin.livejournal.com 2011-11-22 02:38 pm (UTC)(link)
I can see the basic politeness argument if you've been invited to a special occasion such as a birthday dinner or a wedding, but I think extending it to random strangers who happen to be in the same venue as you is taking it a bit far. If I go out for a fancy dinner, I might well care that my partner has made an effort but I'm not going to be offended by some random guy on another table wearing jeans.

[identity profile] kerrypolka.livejournal.com 2011-11-22 03:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I mostly agree with this, I have to say. At first I thought the article was saying the hotel demanded smart dress at all times, like walking through the lobby and things (which would have been ridiculous), but the hotel is clearly trying to create a luxury atmosphere in the restaurant and patrons' clothing does contribute to that. It's not a requirement to go to the posh hotel restaurant when you're on a work trip. I agree that some dress codes can be silly, but if you don't want to dress up for a luxury restaurant...don't go to the luxury restaurant?

[identity profile] momentsmusicaux.livejournal.com 2011-11-23 11:07 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, the respect argument got touted a lot at me when I was a kid.

Balls to it, I say.

How on earth is it disrespect to other diners? Is the poster's proposed attire unpleasant to see? Smelly?