[identity profile] joexnz.livejournal.com 2011-10-09 04:28 pm (UTC)(link)
The closure thing. I've noticed this, for me it tends to be a series of small realisations that allow things to become slowly less important in my life, that they simply cease to cause the same level of pain when I think about them. How you deal with something, is just as important as the thing itself. And is more likely to affect you for longer.

Also why would you want things to back to how they were, if they did we'd never learn or evolve, which for was kind of the point.