I'd say I'm not bisexual, because I have no sexual feelings towards men. It seems like a pretty cut and dried definition to me. If you have sexual feelings only towards members of the same sex then you're gay. If you have sexual feelings only towards members of the opposite sex then you're straight. If you have sexual feelings towards members of both then you're bi.
There's always going to be unusual situations with any definition, of course. And nobody (so far as I know) fancies every member of a particular group.
Yeah, I mostly agree with you. I was just making the argument because of the way you phrased the link.
Really, I think that polls like this don't reveal much of anything, because people respond with what's comfortable for them.
I know several guys who I am sure would have clicked off the "gay" box on that form, despite the fact that when they are drunk and horny they often fuck girls.
And I've yet to have a single female friend who I know well enough to know who hasn't eaten pussy at least once, even though they all identify as straight.
For me, when I want to get laid, I want pussy, so I say "straight" but if Angelina Jolie told me I could do her doggy style if I blew Brad first, I'd be on my fucking knees in a heartbeat.
I don't view the stats there as being that useful, except for setting a minimum. The differences between London and NI, for instance, will be largely because people in NI will be less comfortable being out.
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There's always going to be unusual situations with any definition, of course. And nobody (so far as I know) fancies every member of a particular group.
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Really, I think that polls like this don't reveal much of anything, because people respond with what's comfortable for them.
I know several guys who I am sure would have clicked off the "gay" box on that form, despite the fact that when they are drunk and horny they often fuck girls.
And I've yet to have a single female friend who I know well enough to know who hasn't eaten pussy at least once, even though they all identify as straight.
For me, when I want to get laid, I want pussy, so I say "straight" but if Angelina Jolie told me I could do her doggy style if I blew Brad first, I'd be on my fucking knees in a heartbeat.
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I don't view the stats there as being that useful, except for setting a minimum. The differences between London and NI, for instance, will be largely because people in NI will be less comfortable being out.
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