[identity profile] marrog.livejournal.com 2010-05-26 01:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Again you're making an assumption here that if a person is into you they are therefore up for whatever you want to force on them. The Doctor absolutely fancies Amy - certainly a bit at least. That doesn't mean he wanted to be jumped by her and it just cannot be used to dismiss the concept that she was wrong to act as she did. This application of information is just so problematic on so many levels.

[identity profile] gonzo21.livejournal.com 2010-05-26 02:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I think the part I find problematic is, okay. I don't think it was sexual assault. Leaving that to one side, because what I think really doesn't matter a damn in these situations. The person whose opinion really matters, is the victims. If they decide something was sexual assault, then it was sexual assault.

So in this case, did the Doctor think he was sexually assaulted? And, I just don't think he did.

Which... maybe this whole thing was meant as a comment on the RTD era of Ten?

[identity profile] marrog.livejournal.com 2010-05-26 02:27 pm (UTC)(link)
The person whose opinion really matters, is the victims

This is all very well but that is not what you said. You are making blanket definitive statements, and then qualifying them endlessly.

[identity profile] gonzo21.livejournal.com 2010-05-26 02:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sometimes not entirely clear in expressing my opinions, particularly when I start off in a debate feeling insulted. I assure you though, I do think the only person whose opinion matters is the victim.