sorry - I was being a bit shy, I meant penetrative sex. Also I'm not sure I even know how to spell it.. Apparently it's not sex with a boy without it? Ick, it made me feel queasy, having someone clearly a bit upset because they didn't want to be on the pill but felt like they had no choice.
Of course not all sex needs to be penetrative. But most men focus on it - it's (mostly) what they want. Some relationships may work around this, of course, but most want. I'd have thought the reasons behind this would be a tad obvious...
And nobody needs to be on the pill. There are alternatives.
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And nobody needs to be on the pill. There are alternatives.
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