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andrewducker ([personal profile] andrewducker) wrote2009-03-09 04:01 pm
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[identity profile] davesangel.livejournal.com 2009-03-09 06:49 pm (UTC)(link)
From How Not To Be Insane When Accused Of Racism:

3) Don’t make it about you. Usually the thing to do is apologize for what you said and move on. Especially if you’re in a meeting or something, resist your desire to turn the meeting into a seminar on How Against Racism You Are. The subject of the conversation is probably not “your many close Black friends, and your sincere longstanding and deep abhorrence of racism.”

I think it's a great site, and some great points there, but having read some of what's been bandied about the interweb in recent weeks, I think that this bit is slightly unfair. There are plenty of cases (and not just in regards to racism) where someone says something, means it in a particular way (which is utterly innocent), and then is pulled up for being racist/sexist/etc by someone who is making a mountain out of a molehill/is overly sensitive. It goes both ways, and I don't think that it's always the case that someone should apologise for what they've said if it has been utterly misinterpreted. And that applies to both sides of the giant debate that's ongoing.