Re: Seriously

[identity profile] woodpijn.livejournal.com 2009-02-27 05:08 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm motivated by selfishness and altruism, and the "further away" someone is, the less altruism there is. There's probably an inverse square rule or something

[livejournal.com profile] the_alchemist made an interesting post about something similar this recently (unfortunately friends-locked), although her post was purely about time and space proximity, rather than social. She calls it the Proximity Rule, and says she doesn't have one.

Re: Seriously

[identity profile] woodpijn.livejournal.com 2009-03-01 02:50 pm (UTC)(link)
As I emphasised, she means time and space, not social; but on that scale AIUI she tried the latter and found it unsustainable, so moved to the former at the cost of being thought callous.